Thank you for your question. Although without being able to examine you I can not offer you the specific advice on diagnosis and treatment that you need, but I would try to provide you some relevant information about your health concern.
Your symptoms of progressive weakness, muscle wasting, and muscle fasciculations, spasticity could be strongly related with motor neuron disease. In this disease, motor neurons are affected mainly that may affect all voluntary motions. Investigations such as blood tests, EMG/MRI, genetic reasons are extremely important in order to know its progression. Usually, there is no permanent cure but effective rehabilitation program would surely help in providing relief in your symptoms. Hope this helps.
keep going to different neurologists! your answer IS out there, keep foghting!