Unfortunately I cannot make a clinical diagnosis over the internet. You are correct though in pursing an accurate diagnosis at a major center - one must be confident of the diagnosis before initiating treatment (in most circumstances) as the treatment is expensive and has side effects which could be deleterious to your health. If the diagnosis is MS, then treatment may reduce or slow the course of the disease.
There are several mimics of MS which are sometimes hard to seperate out. MS may still be possible in an older person (rarely we see an MRI scan in an older person that suggests MS, when they have had no symptoms reported in their whole life, MS can be clinically silent for long periods of time, and the severity of the disease varies widely). But especially in an older person, the mimics of MS such as vascular disease, vasculitis, Lyme, sarcoid among others should be looked into before a diagnosis is made.
Good luck
PS- Sorry if I sound nasty. I'm just bitter about the treatment I've gotten. I really hope things work out for you.