First of all, keep in mind that I am unable to diagnose you because I am unable to examine you, this forum is for educational purposes.
The symptoms and story are concerning for cervical myelopathy (spinal problem in the
neckCervical spondylosis
Head and neck glands
Herpes zoster (shingles) on the neck and cheek
Irritated seborrheic kerotosis - neck
Lymph tissue in the head and neck.
Melanoma - neck
Neck lump
Neck pain
Neck pulse
Neck x-ray
Oral cancer region). Cervical myelopathy occurs when the spinal cord is compressed by discs, arthritic bone spurs,
fracturesFractures across a growth plate, tumors, etc, causing a disruption in the 'wires' that go from the brain to the arms/legs. The symptoms often begin with pain, tingling in the arms/legs, and
weaknessWeakness in the arms/legs. When the symptoms progress to loss of bowel and bladder
controlControl
Control rx, this is often considered an emergency for immediate decompression (surgery). Based on the symptoms that you describe I would suggest that you report to your doctor/ER as soon as possible for possible surgery. An MRI of the cervical spine would help determine what is going on at this time. When compression is severe it causes myelomalacia ('softening of the spinal cord') and the damages are often permanent. Often surgery can improve symptoms to some degree, but the major role of surgery is to stop further progression.
I hope this has been helpful.