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Hello
I am an Epileptic from the past 10years.Since then I am regularly taking these mediines:
Clobazam Tab 5mg + for   BD (both time)
Escitalopram Oxalate Tab. 10 mg BD (Both time)
topiramate tab. 50 mg  Morning
Topiramate tab 100 mg ( Night)

Since then I have been regularly facing seizures which are two per year and from last feb I have not got any.But I have some BIG PROBLEMS which I want to tell you:

1. Still I feel sometimes that I could fall because of seizure as I think , may be the medicine I am taking is too much in amount or these drugs are CONTROLLING my disease and not curing.
2.My GUMS ARE SWOLLEN & EVEN BLEED SOMETIMES so please subscribe be something to get rid of this problem.
3.I am Loosing my MENTAL CONCENTRATION & LISTENING ABILITY.
4. I am suffering:  MEMORY LOSS, STAMMERING & FUMBLING WHILE CONVERSING also GET ANGRY. and whenever i am excited like angry, surprised, so much happy, even scared my body starts shivering.

Thats all, Please read everything mentioned here as I have told you my problems in detail for your ease to find out true reasons.
IF THERE IS ANY CURE OF THESE SIDE-EFFECTS PLEASE LET ME KNOW AS I CAN NOT QUIT EPILEPSY MEDICINES...YOU KNOW.
For your reply, I will be very thankful to you.

Sincerely
seema