First of all, keep in mind that I am unable to diagnose you because I am unable to examine you, this forum is for educational purposes.
The signs and symptoms you describe are all consistent with multiple sclerosis. The information I do not know is why the rhematologist suspects you have Lupus? I assume he did an ANA with subtyping. Neuro-Lupus is very rare, and has positive findings on MRI that are different than MS (your descripition is more consistent with MS).
I would suggest a lumbar puncture for inflammation (tourtelotte panel/IgG index, oligoclonal bands), MRI of your C-spine with contrast, and visual/somatosenosory evoked potentials. If your neurologist is unable or unwilling to do these tests, I would suggest a second opinion. I would also recommend that if you seek a second opinion, to get it at an established MS center, by a neurologist that specializes in MS.
Starting disease modifying therapy and/or a short course of IV steroids, can help with you symptoms. MS specialist neurologist also have a multi-fasceted approach to helping you with the fatigue.
As mentioned earlier, I have no information on your rheumatology workup, but from the symptoms and history you provide, it is likely that you have MS. I would complete the testing and take to your neurologist about your treatment options.
I hope this has been helpful.
I just received my latest MRI....the radiologist say completly normal MRI.
How can one have two such contrasting results in six months?
I'd say regardless of your MRI looking better, a spinal tap should be done looking for evidence of MS, or Lyme, sarcoid, or other abnormalities. Your Neuro should know what to send off. It may be that the spinal tap may not be too revealing but it does need to be done to get a better sense of direction. You may need to have another MRI done in 6 months or so, like they said, to get a better idea of how dynamic this is. Also, you should have evoked potentials performed at a neurologist's office, visual and/or brainstem.
MS possibility is still high, therefore, a more aggressive approach needs to be taken and Tx initiated.
SLE can cause the usual MS S/S like optic neuritis (episod of loss of vision), myelopathy (spinal cord involovment), and even INOs (restrection of the eye movements).
What could confuse the picture more with MS are
1-the CSF, IgG and oligoclonal bands (seen in MS) can occur in 50-70% of patients with CNS lupus, BUT the other parameters of the CSF usually mimicks meningitis than MS (much higher protein and polymorphonuclear cell counts).
2-MRI changes may be indistinguishable from those of MS!!.
3-a positive ANA could be seen in 80%! of MS patients
However, CNS involvement almost always occurs in the setting of unmistakable systemic disease so we could confedantly say that lupus is actually seldom confused with MS==> I mean Patients with CNS lupus will have joint disease, rashes, alopecia, fevers, renal failure, and other stigmata of systemic lupus.
Bout the MRI changes, if there only ischemic changes (reduced blood to the tissue )but no necrosis , then the resolution is possible
Bob