First of all, keep in mind that I am unable to diagnose you because I am unable to examine you, this forum is for educational purposes.
The problem you describe is complex and an often confusing one. Pseudo-tumor cerebri (Benign incranial hypertension) causes an elevated intracranial pressure with resulting headaches, possible visual loss, and possible hydrocephalus (causes large ventricles). The cause of this condition is not known, but is thought to be related to decreased absorption of CSF back into the blood, and has been associated with venous clots in some cases. Treatments for this condition include medications that inhibit carbonic anhydrase (diamox, topamax), repeated lumbar punctures and CSF shunts. Optic fenestrations are also done to prevent visual complications in some patients. The problems that many people report are that headaches continue despite shunting, and that shunts have frequent complications. The symptoms you described of tingling in the mouth and nose etc are frequent side effects of diamox. I would recommend that you start a weaker carbonic anhydrase inhibitor, Topamax. This medication is also good for primary headache prevention. I would also recommend an MRI of the brain with CINE flow study (measures CSF flow). MRI is more sensitive and can pick up changes related to possible hydrocephalus and/or chiari.
I hope this has been helpful.
Thank you!
You might want to go to www.pseudotumorcerebri.com. I found this website not to long ago. I wish I had known about it 1999 when we were first diagnosed.
Good luck to you and your family!