First of all, keep in mind that I am unable to diagnose you because I am unable to examine you, this forum is for educational purposes.
The majority of pineal cysts are an incidental finding on MRI scans and have no clinical significance. However, some cases do invlove an enlarging cysts or a pineal tumor, and need to be excised. If your cyst indeed has grown 5mm in the past year and your are having new double vision and nystagmus, then I would recommend a consulation with a neurosurgeon for possible removal. The enhancement with GAD contrast signifies that the blood-brain barrier is broken down (no relationship to loculations). This can be due to tumor, cyst expansion, inflammation etc.
The symptoms you describe in the arms/legs are not likely to be caused by the pineal cyst (only the double vision and nystagmus is likely related). I would suspect your c-spine as the cause of your arm/leg symptoms. To confirm this I would suggest an EMG and a SSEP (somatosensory evoked potential. Cord lesions cause hyporelexia-only when they involve the alpha motor neuron. Your C-spine compression sqeezes the axons on their way form the cortex (central control of muscle), which then causes hyper reflexia and somtimes weakness.
I hope this has been helpful.