While any time one has unprotected sex, there is a degree of risk involved, your risk is so low it isn't worth worrying about. For ONE, only a very small percentage of HIV+ people are heterosexual.
While infection happens in heterosexual situations, it's rare. The vast majority of people who are getting infected are either IV drug abusers, or men having sex with men...and even in THOSE situations, it's people who have repeatedly engaged in risky situations over and over who end up infected. THAT is the reality of it. Those are the FACTS.
Secondly, this guy is telling you he has been tested, and it was negative. That's probably true. Why would he lie to you? If he isn't an IV drug abuser, or bi-sexual having unsafe sex with other men, then he's not a high risk partner.
You can certainly get tested for peace of mind, but you have to ignore the urge to test all the time, or testing for no risk situations. That opens a whole other can of worms and will fuel your OCD. It will be negative.
God doesn't punish people....certainly not for entering into a sexual relationship with someone you knew and trusted. That's just your mind telling you those kinds of things.
You need to address your OCD, as obviously, it isn't managed very well right now.
Remember...FEAR IS NOT FACT!!!
Good luck!
anyoneeee? and i also have reoccuring yeast infections which could be a symptom, right?