It sounds like you are bed ridden and seeing a psychologist may not be feasible for you. Here are a couple of books that I suggest to people:
The OCD Workbook: Your Guide to Breaking free of OCD
Brain Lock
Self-Coaching by Joseph Luciani
Who is prescribing the paxil and how long have you been taking it?
Ty soooo much for emailing me? I am taking Paxil and no, I haven't done CBT. I'm not sure how to do for thoughts? Do u know?
Ty
r u taking medicines for ocd, have u tried cbt?if not then u should try it