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OCD getting in the way of my sex life

Hi, I have bad OCD. I had a mutual masturbation session with a guy, kept my panties on and still think he shifted my panties away and somehow penetrated me while we were dry humping. We dry humped once with both our underwear on and when he took it off, he dried hump me but I was holding his penis to make sure it didnt go anywhere and also, I made him put a condom on after that. There was no direct genital contact and neither did he finger me. However my brain keeps telling me I was penetrated. I keep thinking about it and seem to be convincing myself something did happen. I can't live like that. Its annoying. I want a sex life and I take precautions but I still feel like that
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Yup I go thru that cycle always. I guess my brain can easily go into overdrive and make me assess my non-risky sex activities to actually have a risk and then I will keep testing. Like my recent dry humping, my brain has convinced me that the guy's penis "jumped" into my vagina (accidental penetration) without me knowin it. Idk when these mind games will stop
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Yes that and stds. Have spent nearly $2000 on testing in the past year
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Testing will not help you, because due to ocd you will never get satisfied from the results and the testing will act as a compulsion for you.
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well if therapy is expensive you can get medicines atleast and also you can take help from the book "Overcoming Obsessive Thoughts: How to Gain Control of Your OCD"by christine purdon, this is a very helpful book for pure o sufferers.
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You can have ocd without it affecting every part of your life. It all depends
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Therapy is expensive where I live plus it will be in my medical records and may jeopardize my future when getting jobs especially in the govt sector. Nvm guess I have to handle it by myself.
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What is your OCD about?  Fear of getting pregnant?  
9784446 tn?1421337046
well if you have ocd then it will affect every aspect of your life, its better to keep it  in control with help of medicine and therapy.
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