Hi There,
Everyone has that
fearFears and phobias. In fact usually the fear is worse than the reality of the experience. I would suggest that you do some work on preparing for surgery. There are several resources. Many of my patients have used Peggy Huddleston's book and CD. I have included the link below.
http://www.healfaster.com/
In terms of pain, there is some pain that is controlled by pain medicines. Most people stop needing pain medicines after 2- 10 days depending on the size of the incision. The biggest hurdle is fatigue. It can take about a month to get your energy back after a laparoscopy and 2-3 months after a laparotomy.
I just went to Google and typed in "laparoscopy". There is an amazing wealth of information about the procedure, what to expect, postop care and so forth. I encourage you to go there for more information
best wishes to you