I was 38 when I had my first surgery, and no I did not have kids. I went from the GYN/Oncologist office to the fertility doctors office...and because of the surgery on the ovary that I had left etc, they were unable to harvest any eggs, and at 42 I had the ovary and uterus removed.
At your age, you want to hold on to that ovary of yours as long as you can. You might also consider seeing a fertility doctor.
They don't always have to remove the entire ovary, there is a post about Ashley having been able to concieve with just a 1/4 of an ovary.
Besides ferility, you don't want to be thrown into menopause so young.
My suggestion, is to ask lots of questions, do lots of research.....and talk to your doctors and seek 2nd opinions, see specialists. You probably have a lot more options that you realize.
Stay positive!!!
Pam
Thanks so much for your response and well wishes!
If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Did you have kids? What happens after a hysterctomy?
Sorry for not mentioning the new tumor I have is benign. Cancer doesn't run in my family but the tumors have popped up with quite a few of my cousins on my dad's side.
I'm going back to my GYN for another ultrasound in July. I considered looking for an oncologist but I'll speak to my dr about that after we see the ultrasound. The fact that it hurts makes it so hard not to think about. It's hard because it's mental and emotional as much as it is physically real. I have confidence that everything will be okay, I've done this before when it was bigger. This one isn't even a centimeter right now! I went to the doctor right away I guess.
Thanks again, Pam
-J
I did not have teratomas. I did have my right ovary and tube removed in 2000 with the final biopsy coming back as stage 1a ovarian cancer. I had a complete hysterectomy in 2004.
Hopefully you are seeing a GYN/Oncologist, as they are the experts with 3 years additional training, and treat many benign conditions. Seeing a GYN/Oncologist does not mean that you have cancer.
Discuss the options with your doctor.
Good luck and let us know how it goes.
Pam