You poor thing, you have a whole host of problems going on. And I am sorry that you have no extended family. I personally do not take any hormones at all since my complete hysterectomy, I haven't grown a beard or anything yet, and just deal with the occassional hot flash here and there. Listen to what your doctor has to say, what they want to do and why, and if you feel like you need to get another oppinion, do so, just don't wait. You live in Texas right? You should have doctors everywhere, but I understand that it won't be immediate, I guess. When I first found out that I had this huge mass, I remember it was on a Wednesday, I call the gyn/oncologist office that my primary doctor wanted me to see, and I had an appointment that Friday, things went quick for me, which was better, I didn't have time to think.
Get copies of the MRI films and the reports, you are entitled to them. I get copies of EVERYTHING, especially when you are seeing multiple doctors and a variety of problems.
I too have major back problems that I have been dealing with for the past 2 years, it's horrible, I understand your pain there. I also have Mitral Valve Prolapse, but have no problems with that, just the typical taking the antibotic before stuff.
Get your appointment on the 14th out of the way, write your questions down, people use to say take a tape recorder with you, but these days everybody have cell phones that do everything, when you are talking with your talk, use your phone, anything to capture the conversation, if you don't have anyone to go with you. Let us know what happens on your appointment. Jane.
THANK YOU SOOO MUCH FOR RESPONDING TO MY POST.UNFORTUNATELY,SAD TO SAY..MY SO CALLED FAMILY DISOWNED ME @ THE AGE OF 16.MY SO CALLED MOTHER KICKED ME OUT ON THE STREETS @ 10PM. @ THAT AGE DUE TO HAVING A PUERTO RICAN BOYFRIEND.WHOM NOW IS MY HUSBAND OF 22 YRS.:=) WE, LIVE IN NY. ND OUR FAMILIES LIVE IN DIFFERENT STATES, SO, IT'S JUST US, WITH OUR GROWN 5 CHILDREN. JUST THOUGHT I'D LET YOU KNOW THIS. OK, AS FOR YOUR QUESTIONS.MY OBGYN,HAD NO CLUE OF THESE MRI'S.AND WHAT THEY SHOWED.WHY? BECUASE,I HAD STOPPED GOING TO MY REG. APPOINTMENTS TO HIM.WHICH I'M SUPPOSE TO GET A PAP SMEAR EVERY 4 MONTHS,DUE TO THE CERVICAL DYSPLASIA ON MY CERVIX.WHICH I EXPLAINED ON MY POST.I HAD FALLING DOWN MY STAIRS,DUE TO DIZZINESS.PASSED OUT,RUSHED BY AMBULANCE I RECEIVED X-RAYS,CT SCANS FROM HEAD TO TOE.TWICE ON THIS ISSUE.I HAVE SEVERAL HEALTH ISSUES,WHICH I SEE MY FAMILY DR.WHOM,SUGGESTS I GO TO AN OBGYN.DUE TO MY LOWER PELVIC PAIN,WHEN TOUCHED,ETC.ONCE I SAW THE RESULTS OF THE MRI'S & ETC. I LOOKED THEM OVER CAREFULLY,REALIZING THE RESULTS FROM A YR. AGO UP TO NOW,SHOW I HAVE DEVELOPED MORE ISSUES.SO,THAT'S WHEN I BECAME AWARE TO CALL MY OBGYN!! I HAVE AN APPOINTMENT ON SEPT. 14TH.I ALSO SEE A DR. FOR DEGENERATIVE DISC DISEASE,ARTHITIS THROUGHOUT MY NECK ALL THE WAY TO MY TAILBONE,2 BULDGING DISCS.RECEIVING SHOTS FOR THE PAIN.MANY PAIN KILLERS,PHYSICAL THERAPY,BURNING OF MY LOWER BACK NERVES AND A TENS UNIT,ALL THAT DOES NOT CURE THE PAIN.THEY DISCUSSED SURGERY 4 THIS.I'D RATHER WAIT,UNTIL I GET MY FEMALE PROBLEMS,TAKING CARE OF FIRST.IT CAME TO MY MIND,MAYBE THAT'S WHY I HAVE SO MUCH PAIN IN MY LOWER BACK,DUE TO MY FEMALE ISSUES.WHAT'S YOUR OPINION ON THIS? I HAD MY GALLBLADDER REMOVED,ALSO HAVE A FATTY LIVER.!! HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE,HYPOTHYROID,GERD,HITAL HERNIA,COLITIS,ACID REFLUX,HIGH CHOLESTROL,MITRAL VALVE PROLAPSE,RHUMATOID ARTHRITIS,& SLEEP APNEA,WHICH I USE A CPAP MACHINE FOR THIS.=I'M SOO SORRY THIS IS SOO LONNG ,BUT I GRRREATLY APPRECIATE ALL YOUR HONESTY ON ALL MY ISSUES.WELL, GOTTA SEE WHAT HAPPENS ON SEPT. 14TH....MY OBGYN,SUGGESTED I'D TAKE HORMONE PILLS,TESTRONE..OR JUZT A HYSTERECTOMY PERIOD. 3 YRS. AGO..SO, OBVIOUSLY HE HAS HIS REASON, ONE WAS BECAUSE, HE SAID I HAVE AN ENLARGED UTERUS!! WHICH,SHOULD HAVE WENT BACK TO ITZ NORMAL SIZE BY NOW!! MY OLDEST IS 22, ND YOUNGEST 13..SO, YEAH,WHY WOULD MY UTERUS BE ENLARGED? GOSH, I CAN HEAR HIM, ALREADY WHEN I GO SEE HIM. PLEASE GET BACK TO ME ON ALL THIS...I GRRREATLY APPRECIATE, YOUR FRIENDSHIP AND TRUE HONESTY.TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS.
First of all, calm down ;) We are all here to help and listen. It is natural to be upset and scared, especially since you are familiar with ovarian cancer, but so far alot of what you are explaining "sounds" like alot of tumors and growths you have are of the benign type, and are relatively small. You have a family history of cancer, and a history of gynecological problems, and I assume you are past child bearing age, where your gyn is recommending a hysterectomy, but what we all here would probably recommend is having this done by an oncologist/gyn. These doctors are trained to do these types of surgeries and look specifically for any type of cancer, IF ANY. Have you asked your gyn any questions regarding the results of your mri? Was there anything else in the mri that was questionable? The main thing is, is that you are staying on top of things, you are doing all the right things. Do you have another family member that can go with you to be another set of ears? I know that is very helpful when you are getting alot of information at one time. Take Care and keep us updated. Jane