Lilly64 & Ms_makita, opening a new thread ladies!

[s13]

Hey ladies, let's pick up here...

[Gatsby]

You know the Battalion will always back you up!!!
~Tascha

[Anna-maria74]

:) Thank you my darling for those comments I am sending you an enormous hug for that.

Anna x

[Ms_Makita]

ok this is all getting on my nerves! s-13 has alot of knowledge and knows what she is talking about.She has offered me great advice and alot of support,she dont try to diagnosis anyone.Were all here for one thing,were scared,and need support,and your being very disrespetful and rude,we dont need YOUR high horse.Please keep your rude negative opinions to yourself! Best Wishes,
              Stephanie
  

[lilly64]

Hi - I really stood up for S13 as she has helped me so much as well.  I don't understand how they can bash someone for relaying their experiences and recommendations.  They have insulted my intelligence by insinuating that I would follow someone's suggestions verbatim without researching myself. Anyway, I believe the monitors of the forum delted the negative posts under those threads.  I just really need someone to talk to outside of my husband about these matters, especially people that have/are going through them.  Those women were very very nasty and I also replied that I have always had more men-friends than girlfriends because of this cattiness.  I can't stand it.  But, men don't have ovaries so I have to rely on good girl-talk. Can you send me your email again? I can also sign up for AOL if that's what you have.  Also, I believe S13 has slipped away b/c of all the bashing of her.  
S13 - IF YOU ARE OUT THERE, PLEASE COME BACK TO ME AND STEPH!!!
Hope you are doing o.k.
Talk very soon..... Lilly

[Ms_Makita]

sheesh! this is getting crazy! I cant believe it.Anyways,starting new thread is good idea,hopefully these negative comments will end here.I rarely get along with women,now I'm reminded why,so darn catty! I can relate to you,and shelley, and few other 's on here.You have friends here,just from now on I'm just going to bite my tongue,it isnt worth my time to argue with close minded ppl.Looking fwd to reading your new thread..chat soon
             Stephanie

[lilly64]

Please refer to my post to you on the "Please" thread from "Boosty."  

Once again, please refrain from your negativity and pointless posts.  There is NO room on these threads for that kind of slander. The maximum thread line count is ZERO.

[Ms_Makita]

Heck ya you did stand up! we both did a good job,*high five* I'm sure if it was their buddies they would react same way.I use yahoo messenger,my email is miss_makita(hint hint) I also have your email addy.I hope s-13 is ok,she is going through enough stuff,as we all are,none of us need this,alot of ppl appreciate her advice regardless what few ppl say.Ok time to bite my tongue now,time for dinner,try to download yahoo! PEACE *hugs*
                             Stephanie

[Ms_Makita]

Hi ladies,how are you doing? I'm trying to bite my tongue still,pms attack ,and havent had my chocolate and nicotine fix yet! (yep trying to kick the smoking habit again)
    Lilly how long did it take you to get your ca125 test results back? it's been a week,still not in yet.It's driving me crazy waiting! I'm hoping for good news! pain is getting worse ,its getting unbearable,pain pills stopped working,hopefully something is done soon! I think we all have suffered enough!
    S-13,dont let previous comments get to you,you (and lilly)have offered great advice on here and support,alot of people appreciate you! None of us need that here,someone is just having bad day ,eh? hissy hissy.Ok bite my tongue.I reallyyyyy need a cigg!
        Today I offered to babysit for my neighbor's 4 kids,what was I thinking?! I forgot how exhausting kids can be! I love them dearly..but whew! I still want kid's..but just ONE,haha.
         Maybe swapping email's isnt a bad idea,do either of you chat or have messenger?
               *hugs*
                        Stephanie

[Anna-maria74]

Just thought you might like to know that you are limited to how many threads you can start, being as you are taking over the forum. Maybe swap email addys :)

Anna X

[lilly64]

Apparently someone did not like my factual remarks under the "Pleeeeeaaaaasssssseeeeee" thread from "Boosty" as they are all gone now.  But, basically, ditto what Steph says. I sure hope you all got a chance to read those posts I made before they mysteriously disappeared! Sorry we didn't have the diseases when you all got them; guess we missed out on the beginning of the party - SOME PARTY!  You are very judgmental colossal cold b..... (and you know who you are).  I'll have one more thread to run since I really have something to say in re contacting Laura Bush.  Since you all are playing this game, I really have something to say about that and I was keeping my very strong opinions to myself as I respect the opinions and differences of people.  You all should be ashamed of yourselves.  Thanks for nothing; I thought I'd found some friends (except MS_Makita & S13).

[fungirl]

Well ladies, I am not really sure who you think you are, but just for your information, we were all on this site long before you were.  Anna was not being negative, she was just telling you that there IS limited threads.  As for S13 being knowledgable, she MAY know what was good for her, but she is NO doctor.  As far as saying that we tend to think that because we are done having children that we think the reproductive organs are not needed is pure rubbish!!  As far as your comment to Anna, who is on the high horse now?  Just so you know, Ravenlady and Anna have helped so many people on this forum that you can not begin to imagine.  You all need to think about what you are saying and who's toes you are stepping on!!

[Ms_Makita]

I dont care how long anyone was on here before us,that is besides the point! that is a petty comment! none of us started out on a high horse, talk about rubbish! whether any of you agree with s-13 advice,who in heck do you all think you are posting negative comments/slander on other ppl threads just because you dont agree or like the advice? I mean really,how old are we? this is so silly and getting way out of hand.I'm sure they have helped alot of ppl on here,and my heart does go out to them for braving this dreadful disease! but s-13 ,like anyone else here,has their right to their opinion whether you like it or not! alot of ppl here appreciate s-13.
suck it up,pull up your big girl panties and get use to it!

[SimplyStar]

grin

[boosty]

THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH. YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT ALL YOU WROTE TO ME MEANT TO ME. IF YOU EVER NEED ANYTHING, I AM HERE TOO. APPRECIATE IT SOOO MUCH

[lilly64]

Hi Girls - Yes, my children and husband can walk around and fart all day and when I do it (which is alot lately) - OMG - a mother/woman doesn't do that!  Funny incident:  on New Year's Eve we were up at the restaurant (for my fav. band, of course) and I was sooooo gassy all day.  Had on a "beautyiss" dress and was very lady-like until I had to let one out - it was very good the band was so loud (LOL, LOL).  Anyhott, as I said yesterday, every day is different for us, right?  Well, today the pain is all coming back full tilt.  I have never kicked the nausea, but my bowels seem a little better - at least I'm going.  

Hey Steph - if you can, try magnesium citrate oral solution they sell at drug stores.  It's for colonoscopy prep (Shelley will know).  Mix 1/2 bottle with some gatorade and your trappings should release in a few hours.  The doc said it's safe to take when needed.  Seems mine have gotten back on track since I was jump-started with that in the ER. I have lost a few lbs. b/c of the nausea - I can't eat anything without feeling sick! And, I'm soo fatigued and still have all of this bloat.  We are taking the kids to the Dells this weekend and I swear someone will ask me when I'm due if I wear my swimsuit.  Because I'm relatively small everywhere else, my belly just looks totally pregnant!  THey are faxing over my pap report today so we'll see what it really says.

Shelley - I'm glad you're in better hands now - I hope you get the satisfaction of what is really going on - you sooo deserve to be out of this pain and get your life back.  I know how you feel with your husband; you kinda have to reverse the situation, don't you, and imagine if he was in pain all the time. Sometimes hard for them to listen constantly so it's best to save it until we're really bad off. Hope that makes sense.

Yes, we shall prevail and get better, right?  You both can totally vent to me whenever.  I'm taking my laptop on vacation this weekend so I'll still be in touch.  We came into a few $$ this past weekend and before we spend it on, like, bills, we're taking the kids and gettin' on out of here for a few days - can't wait!!!!  Wasn't enough to go to Vegas, but this will be good enough!

I truly hope you guys get to feel better and that we all find out soon what the he.. is going on.  I still have all the markers (as we all do); I'm just playing the wait and see game until the 23rd when I lay it on this doctor.
Keep posting.  Best...... Lilly

[s13]

Sorry to hear about what happened w/ the dr.  Don't give up!  No matter what the diagnosis may be, you deserve better.  Keep trying, w/ other drs. if you have to.  I totally love how kids can be so inappropriately honest at times.  It makes you stop & laugh at the bad things, which is great.  Take care until next time, peace.

[Ms_Makita]

Hi! sorry to hear about last night Shelley,I had same episode, it was left and right side (stomach area)radiated all over through back,severe nausea,I have to sleep in recliner cant stand to lay down.I figured it was trapped gas,popped gas-x,tums, all night,it wouldnt ease up! it's a lil better now,finally a lil relief! Since this started I never had so much trapped/excessive gas,I hate to be around anyone,constant stomach/bowel rumbling,it's high pitch and loud.I took my 3 yr old niece to store with me today and the tummy noise started to acting up waiting in line,my niece blurts out,"wow,your stomach farts,!!!" omg!cute eh? gotta love how outspoken kids are..haha! lilly,read last post..glad your getting your "groove" back! I havent worked up the nerve to attempt,I better soon maybe he wont be so darn whiney and grumpy..lol,did you two read that site yet? interesting..some women were given the "IBS" theory too. Went to pcp today for the pain and not being able to pass gas (sorry to much info!)got the "IBS" again..,I'm not "backed up",that  was his theory,been having to take 2-3 tbsp milk of magnesia every 3-4 days ,not being able to pass gas,could that be a blockage? I'm not happy with pcp how he blew me off today,he asked me if I was depressed or anxious..ya ,well duh,who wouldnt be? sheeesh! ok thanks for letting me vent..better get going before I write a book! take care,hug's 'n prayers!
                           Stephanie

[s13]

25 line posting Question maximum...Hey Lilly, your emotional self discovery sounds like a good thing; keep at it, sounds like you're making great progress!  I'm happy for ya.  I totally agree w/ the hormone factor.  Many women just don't get it, but I'm thankful you (& a few others here) do.  Once I get a diagnosis (for whatever's causing these symptoms), I will check to make sure Cymbalta is okay to take again.  I'm so worried about taking something that will mask or worsen my symptoms, so I've avoided conventional medicine altogether.  My OBGYN is an idiot for suggesting I go back on estrogen.  Why are drs. so careless?  By the way Lilly, read your post on the Dr./patient forum in reference to low back pain...GOOD FOR YOU!  I just smiled w/ complete satisfaction after reading it; I can't imagine how rewarding it felt for you.  My game plan is this: have a colonoscopy being scheduled for mid wk. (next wk.).  A friend of my husband's is a GI & they did us a favor.  They're also checking into a new GYN for an immediate ultrasound.  They know I have trust issues & will have the tech explain what is shown, while they're doing it.  Besides, I can differentiate some normal from abnormal by now.  My GYN obviously didn't realize that when I saw the COMPLEX cyst & mass w/ my own eyes.  Some drs. can be so shameless in their wrong doing, it's disgusting.  Heard word yesterday that my requested records should be ready no later than Thurs.  I've been pressing the office mgr. since last Thurs.  I was very assertive & demanded the yet to be seen pathology report (from my '05 laparotomy, the 1 my dr. mentioned as possible Cancer & brought up doing a biopsy).  Don't back down Lilly, be consistent.  When you feel hopeless, like giving up - DON'T!  Come vent to Steph & I, okay?  The same goes for you too Steph, right Lilly?  You tell the drs. office about overlooking very relevant history.  Steph, how you doing?  Let us know please.  I had acute upper right abdominal pain lastnight; it left me short of breath & in tears...I had to send my husband away, downplaying it so he wouldn't see.  Nothing he could've done anyway & it's not good to worry him.  I can't even sleep anymore, the nausea when I lay flat is very bothersome.  My husband doesn't even know that when he's snoring away, I'm trying so hard to relax & get to sleep.  Trying to get to sleep shouln't be so exhausting...ironic, isn't it (LOL)?  Still thinking about you both & praying.  'Til next time, peace.