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TO EVERYONE THE END!!!

by gma718, Apr 03, 2007 12:00AM
I want to take this time to stop with all these posts...I want everyone to move past this misunderstanding. We all have more important issues here and we need each other for those issues. I need my stregnth to get me through my surgery not to waste babbling on about something so unnecessary. If anything I said was taken out of context it was not meant to be that way. Thank all of you for your support and guidance..time to move on and focus on whats really important here and that is GOOD HEALTH!
Member Comments (6)

by AnotherKatie, Apr 03, 2007 12:00AM
That's the spirit Sister!
Now, we all know the words to "Kum-bay-ah"?  
Let's all link arms... sway.... throw another log on the campfire....

Mary will give everyone a turn on the drum if you ask nicely ...Ahhh check out the stars...


This peaceful visual brought to you by Canadian Katie, who is still freezing her arse off in Alberta!
Cheers!!

by SFlores2626, Apr 03, 2007 12:00AM
Ok…I have been trying not to add any fuel to this fire but I can’t help but make a few comments.  Gma... I am new to posting and new to these issues with my medical situation as well.  I am scheduled to have the laparoscopy surgery in a few weeks from now as I have a complex cyst and it is said there will be possible removal of my ovary. The thing is that if a doctor is recommending surgery then it is for a reason. No Dr. is going to put you through that unless they feel it is necessary.  I am not thrilled with doing it…but I am thrilled to know that it will hopefully put either some kind of closer to my issues and to so many other things...and or give me some answers if I just do it and get past it.  I hope I am in the 99%!  In some ways I do understand why SimplyStar said you are an “attention seeking woman”.  You say in THIS post you need your strength to get through your surgery.  But in a post you made earlier today that I read before you posted this one was to stretch, Mary and Anna… you said you have cancelled your surgery for this week so that you can get a tooth taken care of.  Why post that you have cancelled it?  To get more attention? You know more people are going to reply to you with don’t cancel it and so on.   Why post today to say you need the strength….my guess is to get more attention. You have posted more times then necessary and now you’re bringing up yet another issue which is not related to this site about your tooth? You are running out of attention with the current issue. Why…maybe for attention on a new topic.   You also stated “the ignorance and nastiness that simply star has said was uncalled for...there is a way to come across and state a point without being mean and arrogant!!”. But you turn around and post something just as nasty about not taking medical advice from a nurse.  I hate to give you this news flash…but you posted on a site with medical questions.  Now…I am not telling you these things with any cruel intentions.  I do think you need to deal with your anxiety and possible depression from what I can see.  I do hope that you are able to pass the negativity in your life that you tend to find.  Since I have read your posts…most are about all of the negative things in your life.  Find something good!  You have 2 children to which I assume you love dearly.  Play with them when you feel sad…that is what will help.  Love them when you need love and they will love you. Know that in order to be healthy for them you need to get this procedure done. If you don’t get it done then it could cause you much greater pain. No matter the bad…always turn around and say something good behind it and you will feel better.  Anxiety is just what you said.  It is a “mental disease” which means you can help change it.  Be strong with that and work on you.  I wish the best for you and there is no need for a good bye letter.  You should feel free to post just like the rest of us.  But try not to focus on just how bad things are.  Everyone in here is trying to find the good.  You say you are a strong person in one of your posts.  Be stronger then the anxiety.  Don’t let the world take you… you should take on the world!

by boosty, Apr 03, 2007 12:00AM
To: SFlores2626
i think gma has made it clear that its over with and we all dont wanna really hear anymore on how "some " of you think its because of attention seeking. whatever it is, shes posting questions and she needs them answered. anyway, she has posted many times that she wants to drop the subject. so before everyone gets sick and tired of it, please stop poking on the same wound. thank you.
vista

by boosty, Apr 03, 2007 12:00AM
To: all
a question... how can someone be seeking attention from a computer or by posting questions. i mean thats not really satisfying attention. looool. hahhahahhah.

by SFlores2626, Apr 03, 2007 12:00AM
actually I was answering her question on why would she be called that.  I only wanted to help her understand why.  I also gave her advise on how to help with her anxiety.  My post is not lashing out at her...but sharing with her how to get past it as well. It is as you said...she is asking for help and her issues that are the worst to her seems to be her anxiety.  I am not posting on "the same wound"..in reality I am trying to help her conquer her current one.  

by gma718, Apr 05, 2007 12:00AM
To: EVERYONE
I have previously asked of we could move on and stop with all these nonsense posts...I for one would like to do that. lets focus on the real issues here and continue with helping, supporting and being there for the real important issues. I am working on my issues and for now I have nothing more to add to it. when I get my surgery rescheduled I will be happy to inform everyone. Lets go back to the real issues at hand her for the woman that need us!
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