My mother ironically was a social worker who worked with cancer patients!
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Date: 8/10/2008 5:14:03 PM Eastern Daylight Time
From: CMH4165
To: CMH4165
Also my mother had a hysterectomy and chemotherapy and they even tried alternative treatments, and after her hysterectomy and chemotherapy she went into a very short remission for just about a month and came home from the hospital but then her cancer spread to her lungs! My mother didn't have any sisters but she had no close female relatives who had uterine cancer. Her mother lived to be 91 and her maternal grandmother lived to be 90 but my grandmother's youngest sister died of breast cancer in her 40's.
I asked my father recently if my mother had any symptoms months before her diagnosis and he said yes, 8 months before they were on vacation in France and she was exhausted,had no energy and was practically fainting. He said she put if off for months, and I remember her bleeding for a month before she was diagnosed but she didn't go to a doctor right away because she thought she was getting menopause. She was thin in her 20's like I was but got overweight starting in her mid-late 30's but she was in good health I don't remember her ever in a hospital before!
I recently called the medical records departments at both of the hospitals my mother was in including the second one where she died and I asked for her medical records and my father a retired lawyer, faxed them the info they need and they are mailing the records to my father so we can know exactly what type of uterine cancer she had and why she died so fast.
My gynocologist is such an insensitive f***ing creep! She called me back a day after I had left 2 messages with her receptionist about getting a transvaginal pelvic ultrasound for some peace of mind before I get the uterine biopsy on August 28 which I had asked her for when she first called me and told me about this. Both The National Cancer Institute and The American Cancer Society say that getting the transvaginal ultrasound first lets the doctor know where exactly to biopsy.
In the Fall of 2005 I went to my regular gynocologist and told her about the spotting in between my period and all she did was give me a regular pelvic exam, then some months later I had the spotting again so I went back to see another woman gynocologist who was there on a day mine wasn't. And I told her about the spotting and that I was really concerned because my mother died of uterine cancer at age 49. All this gyno did was give me a regular pelvic exam and neither could answer me why the spotting is happening, she said I have to come in when it happens which is not easy to do because it skips months and the women gynocologists are not always there when it happens. She said she would be concerned if I was bleeding heavily but who wants to wait until then?!
I went to my internist in February 2006 and told her about the spotting and my concerns and when I told her that the 2 gyno's just gave me a pelvic exam, he said she wanted me to have a transvaginal pelvic exam because there are certain things you can't see with just a regular pelvic exam. So I had it done in October 2006 since the spotting had gone away for a while and it came back normal. But I just read a post on The American Cancer Society's cancer survivor's message board about women who got uterine cancer from tamoxifen to treat their breast cancer and one woman said that she had just a black and white transvaginal ultrasound with no color doppler and they missed her uterine tumor! It made me think about the fact that they didn't use color doppler with my pelvicvaginal ultrasound sound either and that was almost 2 years ago and my spotting in between my period is still going on off and on and now these endometrial cells turned up in my Pap test! It makes me so afraid to think that some tumor or tumors are in my uterus by now!!
Sadly and outrageously actress Fran Drescher was misdiagnosed with uterine cancer for *2* years by 8 different doctors when she was spotting in between her period and had pain after sex, all those doctors just minimized her symptoms and just put her on hormones thinking she was getting menopause and never did a biopsy until doctor # 9 did a biopsy and she learned she had a uterine tumor the size of a walnut! Fran is very lucky to still be here!
My gynocologist was nasty and annoyed with me for calling her office again and wanting some real answers about what this means my stepmother had said to me after my gynocologist first told me about this, that she scared me and didn't really tell me anything about what this is and means.My stemother said call her up and ask her to tell you more about this and I said well she doesn't act nice like the when I had the scare with the abnormal cervical cells years ago and my stepmother said well you can be tough try to find out.
My gynecologist said most of the time this is nothing, and that a family history plays a role but there is not a strong genetic link to uterine cancer and yet she still wanted to do a biopsy! She said that I should find another gynocologist and that I should see a psychiatrist! She had the nerve to also bring up how afraid I was when in November 2003 I had , a Pap test come back showing abnormal cervical cells and I asked The American Cancer Society to send me information on Pap tests and cervical cancer soon after this and it says don't use tampons 2 or 3 days before the test because it effects the results. And I had been using tampons just 2 days before so I'm sure thats what happened there and I had 3 normal follow up Pap tests after until this one. And I said to her I had good reason to be worried then but this new result is different and much more worrisome because the other abnormal test didn't show endometrial cells which are not very common on a Pap test and my mother died of uterine not cervical cancer!
I really do want to find another gynocologist who is nicer but it seems it's really hard to find nice doctors, medical assistants and nurses and some of her recptionists and medical assistants are nasty creeps too!. My stepmother had asked me to ask my gynecologists medical assistant to fax over my results to her and she said in a not nice way to me, no she's not going to fax it over to my mother in law or anyone, else because she had faxed it to a top cancer center in my city and I told my stepmother this and she said they are really nasty in that office! And this gynecologist is really convenient right across the street and takes both of my insurrances.