I understand... I had extreme reactions to all the types of oral BC they tried me on. Even my best friends didn't want to be around me!
After surgery they put me on Depo-Provera, which scared me at first, since if I had bad reactions to it, there's no way to get it out of your system for three months, but the one thing I noticed with all the other BC pills is that they have estrogen in them, and are comprised mainly of natural or synthetic estrogen, and just a tiny bit of progesterone. Turns out that I already have higher estrogen, and the added estrogen of the BC made me nuts. So the Depo-Provera, which is all progesterone (you stop cycling cause your body thinks it's pregnant), has made a huge difference. I tend to get a little depressed, but no major mood swings, no irritability, etc. HUGE difference.
Try having your estrogen levels tested... see if maybe that's part of it.
~Marianne
Welcome. Could you go get a 2nd opinion with a gyn/onc? They are specialists and have seen everything. Perhaps there is something else that can be done. Although 2 months is not that long, it will seem even longer if you are miserable. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Godspeed
~Tascha