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O.k ladies, this is a hard one for me.. I just spoke with Chris's best friend Janet (some of you met her at last yrs. event). Chris was to have had an MRI done this morning of the brain. They were not able to do the test on her. She is being taken up to Decatur, Illinois tomorrow to have tubes put in her lungs, and they are bringing in Hospice for her.
Her father is flying in on Friday, and the familyBirth control and family planning Choosing a primary care provider Ewing’s sarcoma Family troubles - resources will all be together. I am sorry I do not know anymore then that right now, but will update as soon as I here more. Please keep her in your prayers.
Chris, you are in my thoughts and prayers along with your family. I wish I could give you a big but gentle hug.....You were also the first to welcome me here as well.....I love you,
Love, Dawnlyn
Chris,
So much I wanted to meet you in person and I wanted to give you many hugs - all the ones I think about giving you each and every day. You have only shown me love, kindness and caring and I am so grateful to have that love. I will keep you and your family in my heart, thoughts and prayers. I love you more than you can know,
Colleen
NO, NO, NO!!! She has touched so many lives here and has always been the voice of optimism. I am hoping we can give her a call on speaker phone from Chicago and send her all our good wishes. Chris, you are well loved and my prayers are with you and your family.
I pray that you and your family find relief and deep peace from your hospice care.
Thank you for your many words of wisdom and being here with us. Mary
Although I haven't been here to long, I have seen the responses during Chris's latest difficult battle. Its heartwarming to see how people like Chris can give hope and wisdom to others, and what she has had to suffer to be so knowledgable. I truly hope you find some peace, and gain some strength knowing that you have helped so many. Gentle hugs Chris, and may peace be with you.
This must be so hard for you. I know you want to kick cancer in the rear with steel toed boots and someone keeps giving you fuzzy slippers instead. For now you're stuck with the slippers but you can still enjoy the love that surrounds you. Just think of us as the fluffy matching robe wrapped snugly around your shoulders giving you perpetual hugs.
i didnt know you, but im jealous that i didnt get a chance to talk to you... you sound like a wonderful women and my prayers are with you.... god will place his hands on you and heal you pain, and you will touch so many more hearts..... may god bless you and your family....
My heartfelt prayers go out to Chris and her family. I never got to meet her in person, but so appreciated her friendliness when I first joined the site.
I am so sad. Chris was also one of the first ladies to open up to me and assist with what was happening in my world. I am praying for peace, strength and love to surround Chris and her family.
I dont know Chris either but she sounds like a wonderful women.May God
keep you in the palm of his hands.
I pray for healing & Gods strength be with you & your family
It has been awhile since the days of the chat room where we talked. I want you to know how much I appreciate your kindness and true understanding. Although things definitely don't go the way we wish many times in this life, I truly believe this isn't the end. Reunions that don't happen in this life will be made complete when we get to heaven. I am sad and hoping there is a miracle and peaceful, pain free days ahead.
Wanting only peace, comfort and simplicity for you at this time. No worries, no stress, no regrets. Your spirit and soul have given me motivation at times when I had none. Rest now, dear heart.
Love,
Sharon
All I can say is that I'm just so terribly sorry to hear this . It is, indeed, heartbreaking. Just to add my thoughts and prayers to those already expressed..
No, I cannot handle this, Chris has been my strength thro the years that I have been here, tears that I so seldom allow to fall are falling now, if my tears can move God to give you a miracle, let it happen. I am right by you Chris, my heart and my thoughts are close enough for you to reach out and touch, grab on and hold on tight, of all the dear ladies on the forum, Chris, you have been my light in the darkness. I hold you as one of my own. Marty
Chris, I am the mother of seven, as you know; I have told each of my children, and all who would listen, that they need to do something in their liftime that makes the world a better place for their having been here. It needs to be a better place when you leave than when you arrived.
You have touched may lives and made them all a little better!
Thank you so much, Chris, for touching our little worlds and making them bighter.
Your light will always shine, and I will always cherish our long distance relationship.
I wish Peace for you and your family.
With love,
dian
This is unbearable. I feel like I've known Chris forever yet I never met her once in person. She is one of the sweetest and most caring women I know...I will hold her close to my heart and pray for her...I hate that that's all I can do - it doesn't seem like enough.
I just got off the phone with Linda, Chris sister..I am sorry to say this, but Chris is not doing well at all, I think it will only be a matter of time now, and God will take her home. She was unable to have the tubes put in today, as she is extremely weak, and retaining alot of fluid. Hospice was in today, and they are making her as comfortable as they can. Her Father, and half sister, and brother are coming in this weekend. The entire family will be with her, surrounding her with love. Her sister told me to let you all know, if Chris is strong enough on Sunday, she will help her get online to talk to all of you. At that time the family will be able to read your wonderful words to Chris. I will update, as soon as I know anymore
with sadness, and a heavy heart
Tc
Is anything being done about getting her husband home for a visit, I know from her posts that she was holding on waiting for the time they could be together again. I don't know all the story, but I do know she had never given up on him. God please hold Chris in your loving arms as she paases through this difficult time of her life. Amen
Marty
Thanks for keeping us updated. I do hope her hubby will get the chance to come home.. I too do not know the circumstances....But I do hope they can be together....I really do no know what else to say....I am devastated...She has been such a rock.....and even though I never met her in person.....From our talks she is a very special lady.....Please give her my love..........I am so praying for a miracle...I love you Chris........Love, Dawnlyn
This is all moving too fast. Just a few days ago she was planning to come to the gathering in Chicago. Now everyone is gathering around her and doing hospice care. I can't wrap my mind around this. I'm angry at the doctors for letting her lungs go so long. And I want to hug Chris close and make it all better.
Hang in there Chris. Please, I pray you'll get to hear or read all the love letters being sent to you. I want you to know how special you are.
This is why we're all here: to support each other through surgeries, diagnosis, chemo and everything that goes with it ... to send a prayer or group hug when needed ... and to face and mourn the losses when they can no longer be avoided.
Chris has been a big contributor to this forum, and we'll miss her. I will pray for her and her family during this journey.
To not ever have met a person who has been through this and to have that person make an strong impact and impression on me has been extraordinary.
Chris's strength, kindness, wisdom and goodness has flown all over and embraced us.
She has made a difference, a kind and good difference, for everyone.
I pray for a miracle but if we do not have that, Chris and her family can live knowing that the person they have loved has made so many people better off.
She has made this struggle and this world a better kinder place.
I am sad but a life well lived, a life that leaves others better, that helps others is the finest thing we have on earth.
I am sorry but know we will never forget her and will be praying for her and those who love her, and for all of us.
Chris was so encouraging to me when I was lossing my hair she was there with words to encourage me. I belive that she is a strong lady now she needs to be sorrounded by prayer and others who love her and yes even us on this forum. May God give peace and comfort to Chris........((((((((((HUGs)))))))))) sharlene
my heart fills with pain for her and all of you that loved her so much... im getting tears in my eyes and a ball in my throat for a lady i never even met.... i know she was amazing, you dont even have to explain.... she will be dearly missed and god will make her at peace.... she knows everyone has this crazy amount of love for her.....
I am so devastated to here this. From the first time I came on this forum you have helped me and been a great friend and helped me not to feel alone. Meeting you at Springfield last year was fantastic - to see the optimistic energetic wonderful fighting spirit in person is a lasting memory (as was driving down the wrong side of the road from the airport!). You seemed to take us all under your wing and worry and care for us and cheer us up no matter what was happening in your life. I don't know that you understand the impact you had on so many lives.
I know wish you peace and removal of all pain and truly believe that you will continue to watch out over us all willing us all to continue to fight this demon. Lots of love to you and your family in this difficult time.
Bron
Chris,
If you are able to have family read you these words on Sunday, please know that you are forever in my heart. You have changed my life with your incredible love of life, spirit, giving nature and wonderful advice and help for me. You gave me hope when I was so down, even as you were fighting your hard fought battles. I can't truly explain in words what you mean to me. I know you will be God's warrior in this battle against cancer and will be watching over and caring for all of us. Love you!!! Colleen
Chris,
I just wanted to say thank you for all your support...it has been a source of strength for me. Also your unselfishness towards those on this message board is an inspiration. My prayer for you ...is that you know what an impact you have had on so many women and their families and you find some rest and peace soon. Love, Julie
Dear Chris .. All I can say is thank you for being such a driving force and constant support for all of us here on this forum. I pray that God lifts you in his loving hands and gives you peace.
i am so devastated by this news i can't put into words what is in my heart. My prayers for peace and love go with you. I can;t talk right now.I;m to upset
My dear Chris...
I hope you are able to hear these words we are all sending to you. To know how much you are loved...to know how many lives you have touched...to know how greatly you will be missed.
I think about you every day and pray that you are in peace and free from pain.
I love you...
Becky xx
My heart is heavy and I am at a loss for words. Although we never met, I'm glad to have known your spirit for life through this site. I'm also glad that I had an opportunity to at least speak with you on the phone. My love and prayers are always with you.
Dear Chris,
I can't believe that this is happening!! I just want you to know how much you are loved. You have been there for so many of us, and now it is our time to be here for you. Just close your eyes and feel us surrounding you in a huge hug and all of our love. You are one amazing woman, Chris, and I will be praying for you. I love you girl!!
Dear Chris,
I haven't been on much lately as I've hit more rough patches myself but I want you to know that I have felt close to you from the start of me being on this forum. Your journey and mine have coincided at times. Even though we've never met, I wished we could have , and had a few laughs. You always seemed to handle this with a level head and a warm heart and I thank you for your huge part in this forum. I hope you are not in pain and are at peace.
Love Karen
I am so very sad to hear this. You are an inspiration to everyone here and the forum will not be the same without your strength and friendship. I wish I could have met you in person. I wish you much peace.
Chris has always been one of the strongest gals here fighting this battle. I pray she will be peaceful and without pain of any sort. She deserves only the best of circumstances now. She's done so much to help many people through this battle.
Teresa
Chris,
We all love you and are praying for you. I wish there was more that we could do.
What a terrific support you've been to everyone here. We wish we could be the same support back to you. We are all so grateful to you.
Sending you my love and strength.
Kathy
I really do not know what to say. I have just read this post and I would be praying for you. I would never forget your kindness when I was lost over my mum's illness.
One more message from me....somewhere on the other part of the planet, there is someone who would always think fondly of you. I have never met you but I would always remember your words of encouragement. Thank you.
I am so sad to hear this , Chris you are such a special Lady who always has time for everyone . You have helped so many women with advise and your caring words. You will always be remembered here because you have made such a difference to so many. I pray that you are not in pain . God bless you, wishing you peace.
When I first joined the forum you were there to encourage me. I pray you will be comforted by your family and that you might feel the love and support sent by all who have been touched by your spirit. You have been an amazing Warrior against this disease!!
Love, Terry
Dearest Chris,
You are an incredible inspiration. What you have endured in the last several years is so admirable - you are such a strong, incredible woman. I'm praying for you Chris. Praying everything runs smoothly and you are no longer in pain. Sending love your way, Deandra aka Brownie
You are a wonderful kind person who was always the first to offer words of encouragement to those who came to this forum scared and confused. I hope they have made you as pain free as possible.
Today is Sunday and I hope someone has brought a computer for you to see. There's such a long list of support and loving notes. You just have to see them or hear them for yourself. Do you realize what a terrific woman you are?
Just spoke with Linda, Chris sister. She will try and post at a later date, when she is better able. Right now they are just surrounding Chris with all the love they have for her.
Chris is not going to be online today, she is not able. We have had our time with her, she is now in the arms of her family and friends. Sorry, but we must let our friend go. Her time with us is over. We love you Chris, Go in peace.
I know Chris won't be reading this, but I just wanted to echo Butterfly's sentiment. I'm praying there is no pain, and nothing but peace as she slips away with her family by her side. What a graceful fight this has been.
I too am so gald that Chris is with her family at this time. We have to let her go and give her family the time they need with her. I pray that she slips away in peace and pain free. FLY HIGH WITH THE ANGELS CHRIS. JESUS AWAITS YOU WITH OPEN ARMS. I LOVE YOU!!
Peace to you Chris...may you be free of pain and feel the love that surrounds you.
I will remember you always and forever...give the other ladies a big hug from me when you see them :)
Hugs and prayers....
love Becky xxx
As you leave this world you can truly feel that you gave it your best fight, with grace and dignity. You have the respect of so many if us in this forum. Thank you.
Karen
Prayers of strenth for her and her family.
Heidi
Gail
Doicat/Teresa
Lots of love
Angie
Love, Dawnlyn
So much I wanted to meet you in person and I wanted to give you many hugs - all the ones I think about giving you each and every day. You have only shown me love, kindness and caring and I am so grateful to have that love. I will keep you and your family in my heart, thoughts and prayers. I love you more than you can know,
Colleen
Thank you for your many words of wisdom and being here with us. Mary
Lots of love to you,
irene
Minnie
Karen
keep you in the palm of his hands.
I pray for healing & Gods strength be with you & your family
Lisa
It has been awhile since the days of the chat room where we talked. I want you to know how much I appreciate your kindness and true understanding. Although things definitely don't go the way we wish many times in this life, I truly believe this isn't the end. Reunions that don't happen in this life will be made complete when we get to heaven. I am sad and hoping there is a miracle and peaceful, pain free days ahead.
Love, Shelly
Love,
Sharon
You have touched may lives and made them all a little better!
Thank you so much, Chris, for touching our little worlds and making them bighter.
Your light will always shine, and I will always cherish our long distance relationship.
I wish Peace for you and your family.
With love,
dian
jun
My love to you Chris....
Becky xx
She's been fighting this disease so valiantly, and it breaks my heart.
I wish her, and her family peace and strength.
jane
with sadness, and a heavy heart
Tc
Marty
Chris was not married, that was her boyfriend, and yes they have spoken on the phone..but I do not think she will be well enough for a visit.
Thanks for keeping us updated. I do hope her hubby will get the chance to come home.. I too do not know the circumstances....But I do hope they can be together....I really do no know what else to say....I am devastated...She has been such a rock.....and even though I never met her in person.....From our talks she is a very special lady.....Please give her my love..........I am so praying for a miracle...I love you Chris........Love, Dawnlyn
Hang in there Chris. Please, I pray you'll get to hear or read all the love letters being sent to you. I want you to know how special you are.
hugs, irene
Chris has been a big contributor to this forum, and we'll miss her. I will pray for her and her family during this journey.
Chris's strength, kindness, wisdom and goodness has flown all over and embraced us.
She has made a difference, a kind and good difference, for everyone.
I pray for a miracle but if we do not have that, Chris and her family can live knowing that the person they have loved has made so many people better off.
She has made this struggle and this world a better kinder place.
I am sad but a life well lived, a life that leaves others better, that helps others is the finest thing we have on earth.
I am sorry but know we will never forget her and will be praying for her and those who love her, and for all of us.
I know wish you peace and removal of all pain and truly believe that you will continue to watch out over us all willing us all to continue to fight this demon. Lots of love to you and your family in this difficult time.
Bron
If you are able to have family read you these words on Sunday, please know that you are forever in my heart. You have changed my life with your incredible love of life, spirit, giving nature and wonderful advice and help for me. You gave me hope when I was so down, even as you were fighting your hard fought battles. I can't truly explain in words what you mean to me. I know you will be God's warrior in this battle against cancer and will be watching over and caring for all of us. Love you!!! Colleen
I just wanted to say thank you for all your support...it has been a source of strength for me. Also your unselfishness towards those on this message board is an inspiration. My prayer for you ...is that you know what an impact you have had on so many women and their families and you find some rest and peace soon. Love, Julie
Judy C
I hope you are able to hear these words we are all sending to you. To know how much you are loved...to know how many lives you have touched...to know how greatly you will be missed.
I think about you every day and pray that you are in peace and free from pain.
I love you...
Becky xx
Love, Angie
I can't believe that this is happening!! I just want you to know how much you are loved. You have been there for so many of us, and now it is our time to be here for you. Just close your eyes and feel us surrounding you in a huge hug and all of our love. You are one amazing woman, Chris, and I will be praying for you. I love you girl!!
Love,
Kasie
I haven't been on much lately as I've hit more rough patches myself but I want you to know that I have felt close to you from the start of me being on this forum. Your journey and mine have coincided at times. Even though we've never met, I wished we could have , and had a few laughs. You always seemed to handle this with a level head and a warm heart and I thank you for your huge part in this forum. I hope you are not in pain and are at peace.
Love Karen
Love
Linda
Chris I'm so sad you didn't get to Chicago as you so wanted to. You are in my prayers.
Teresa
We all love you and are praying for you. I wish there was more that we could do.
What a terrific support you've been to everyone here. We wish we could be the same support back to you. We are all so grateful to you.
Sending you my love and strength.
Kathy
Love you
Angie
xx
Love, Terry
Heidi
You are an incredible inspiration. What you have endured in the last several years is so admirable - you are such a strong, incredible woman. I'm praying for you Chris. Praying everything runs smoothly and you are no longer in pain. Sending love your way, Deandra aka Brownie
You are a wonderful kind person who was always the first to offer words of encouragement to those who came to this forum scared and confused. I hope they have made you as pain free as possible.
thinking of you across the miles
Jenny
Much love and many hugs to you little lady,
irene
Chris is not going to be online today, she is not able. We have had our time with her, she is now in the arms of her family and friends. Sorry, but we must let our friend go. Her time with us is over. We love you Chris, Go in peace.
love
butterflytc
With Sadness,
Gail
Peace to you and your family, and hoping everything is made as comfortable as possible at this time.
I will remember you always and forever...give the other ladies a big hug from me when you see them :)
Hugs and prayers....
love Becky xxx
Karen