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friends of Chris *Crecco*

by butterflytc, Oct 14, 2009 10:43PM
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O.k ladies, this is a hard one for me.. I just spoke with Chris's best friend Janet (some of you met her at last yrs. event). Chris was to have had an MRI done this morning of the brain. They were not able to do the test on her. She is being taken up to Decatur, Illinois tomorrow to have tubes put in her lungs, and they are bringing in Hospice for her.
    Her father is flying in on Friday, and the family will all be together. I am sorry I do not know anymore then that right now, but will update as soon as I here more. Please keep her in your prayers.

with sadness,
butterflytc
Member Comments (67)

by cmplicated1, Oct 14, 2009 10:54PM
To: butterflytc
I do not know Chris, but I will definitely keep her in my prayers :(

by Justkoz, Oct 14, 2009 11:44PM
To: butterflytc
I too do not know Chris, however I will pray for her and her family and all those that love her. God be with them and give them all strength.

by justscore, Oct 15, 2009 12:01AM
Oh no......


Prayers of strenth for her and her family.  

Heidi

by gah_70, Oct 15, 2009 12:23AM
As many times as we've been through this, it never gets any easier.  As sad as this is, it makes next week's Chicago gathering that much more special.  It would have never gotten off the ground without her.  My thoughts and prayers are with her and her family, and we're going to make her proud!  

Gail

by doicat, Oct 15, 2009 03:31AM
Sending big warm hugs and prayers to you girl...You were one of the first to welcome me to this site and I love you!

Doicat/Teresa

by silver&gold, Oct 15, 2009 05:51AM
Sending thoughts and prayers to Chris and family, you are loved by so many Chris.

Lots of love
Angie

by dawnlyn, Oct 15, 2009 05:58AM
Chris, you are in my thoughts and prayers along with your family.  I wish I could give you a big but gentle hug.....You were also the first to welcome me here as well.....I love you,
Love, Dawnlyn

by lvfrogs, Oct 15, 2009 06:37AM
Chris,
So much I wanted to meet you in person and I wanted to give you many hugs - all the ones I think about giving you each and every day.  You have only shown me love, kindness and caring and I am so grateful to have that love.  I will keep you and your family in my heart, thoughts and prayers.  I love you more than you can know,
Colleen

by TrudieC, Oct 15, 2009 07:06AM
NO, NO, NO!!!  She has touched so many lives here and has always been the voice of optimism.  I am hoping we can give her a call on speaker phone from Chicago and send her all our good wishes.  Chris, you are well loved and my prayers are with you and your family.

by seawaves, Oct 15, 2009 07:07AM
To: Chris
I pray that you and your family find relief and deep peace from your hospice care.
Thank you for your many words of wisdom and being here with us.  Mary

by wannasmile63, Oct 15, 2009 07:47AM
Although I haven't been here to long, I have seen the responses during Chris's  latest difficult battle. Its heartwarming to see how  people like Chris can give hope and wisdom to others, and what she has had to suffer to be so knowledgable. I truly hope you find some peace, and gain some strength knowing that you have helped so many. Gentle hugs Chris, and may peace be with you.

by ireneo, Oct 15, 2009 07:48AM
To: Chris
This must be so hard for you. I know you want to kick cancer in the rear with steel toed boots and someone keeps giving you fuzzy slippers instead. For now you're stuck with the slippers but you can still enjoy the love that surrounds you. Just think of us as the fluffy matching robe wrapped snugly around your shoulders giving you perpetual hugs.

Lots of love to you,

irene

by turkee23, Oct 15, 2009 07:52AM
To: chris
i didnt know you, but im jealous that i didnt get a chance to talk to  you... you sound like a wonderful women and my prayers are with you.... god will place his hands on you and heal you pain, and you will touch so many more hearts..... may god bless you and your family....

by MinnieWM, Oct 15, 2009 08:58AM
To: butterflytc
My heartfelt prayers go out to Chris and her family.  I never got to meet her in person, but so appreciated her friendliness when I first joined the site.

Minnie

by Angie1992, Oct 15, 2009 09:00AM
Dear Chris, You are a very special lady and very loved.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Love and warm hugs to you, Angie

by Flicka0459, Oct 15, 2009 09:38AM
This can't be happening.

by Searching48507, Oct 15, 2009 10:03AM
I am so sad.  Chris was also one of the first ladies to open up to me and assist with what was happening in my world.  I am praying for peace, strength and love to surround Chris and her family.

Karen

by Lisi251, Oct 15, 2009 10:37AM
To: butterflytc
I dont know Chris either but she sounds like a wonderful women.May God
keep you in the palm of his hands.
I pray for healing & Gods strength be with you & your family

Lisa

by cirella, Oct 15, 2009 11:52AM
This is heartbreaking news.

by hopeshell, Oct 15, 2009 02:59PM
Chris,

It has been awhile since the days of the chat room where we talked.  I want you to know how much I appreciate your kindness and true understanding.  Although things definitely don't go the way we wish many times in this life, I truly believe this isn't the end.  Reunions that don't happen in this life will be made complete when we get to heaven. I am sad and hoping there is a miracle and peaceful, pain free days ahead.  

Love,  Shelly

by bohan54, Oct 15, 2009 03:28PM
To: Chris
Wanting only peace, comfort and simplicity for you at this time.  No worries, no stress, no regrets.  Your spirit and soul have given me motivation at times when I had none.  Rest now, dear heart.
Love,
Sharon

by Sandymac, Oct 15, 2009 03:32PM
All I can say is that I'm just so terribly sorry to hear this . It is, indeed, heartbreaking. Just to add my thoughts and prayers to those already expressed..

by SimplyStar, Oct 15, 2009 04:04PM
No, I cannot handle this, Chris has been my strength thro the years that I have been here, tears that I so seldom allow to fall are falling now,  if my tears can move God to give you a miracle, let it happen.  I am right by you Chris, my heart and my thoughts  are close enough for you to reach out and touch, grab on and hold on tight, of all the dear ladies on the forum, Chris, you have been my light in the darkness.  I hold you as one of my own.  Marty

by dian07, Oct 15, 2009 04:42PM
To: Chris and Family
Chris, I am the mother of seven, as you know;  I have told each of my children, and all who would listen, that they need to do something in their liftime that makes the world a better place for their having been here. It needs to be a better place when you leave than when you arrived.  
You have touched may lives and made them all a little better!
Thank you so much, Chris, for touching our little worlds and making them bighter.
Your light will always shine, and I will always cherish our long distance relationship.  
I wish Peace for you and your family.
With love,
dian

by Ramsay14, Oct 15, 2009 05:00PM
Praying for Chris

by junamgen, Oct 15, 2009 05:09PM
Peace and love

jun

by Tybear, Oct 15, 2009 05:21PM
This is unbearable. I feel like I've known Chris forever yet I never met her once in person. She is one of the sweetest and most caring women I know...I will hold her close to my heart and pray for her...I hate that that's all I can do - it doesn't seem like enough.

My love to you Chris....
Becky xx

by jane65, Oct 15, 2009 06:37PM
To: reply
I got a  cold chill when I read the latest post about our dear Chris. She's been a constant source of strength and hope, since I joined the board.

She's been fighting this disease so valiantly, and it breaks my heart.

I wish her, and her family peace and strength.
jane

by butterflytc, Oct 15, 2009 06:40PM
I just got off the phone with Linda,  Chris sister..I am sorry to say this, but Chris is not doing well at all, I think it will only be a matter of time now, and God will take her home. She was unable to have the tubes put in today, as she is extremely weak, and retaining alot of fluid. Hospice was in today, and they are making her as comfortable as they can. Her Father, and half sister, and brother are coming in this weekend. The entire family will be with her, surrounding her with love. Her sister told me to let you all know, if Chris is strong  enough on Sunday, she will help her get online to talk to all of you. At that time the family will be able to read your wonderful words to Chris. I will update, as soon as I know anymore
with sadness, and a heavy heart
Tc

by SimplyStar, Oct 15, 2009 07:03PM
Is anything being done about getting her husband home for a visit, I know from her posts that she was holding on  waiting for the time they could be together again.  I don't know all the story, but I do know she had never given up on him. God please hold Chris  in your loving arms as she paases through this difficult time of her life. Amen
Marty

by butterflytc, Oct 15, 2009 07:22PM
Marty,
   Chris was not married, that was her boyfriend, and yes they have spoken on the phone..but I do not think she will be well enough for a visit.

by dawnlyn, Oct 15, 2009 07:27PM
Tc

Thanks for keeping us updated. I do hope her hubby will get the chance to come home..  I too do not know the circumstances....But I do hope they can be together....I really do no know what else to say....I am devastated...She has been such a rock.....and even though I never met her in person.....From our talks she is a very special lady.....Please give her my  love..........I am so praying for a miracle...I love you Chris........Love, Dawnlyn

by ireneo, Oct 15, 2009 07:41PM
This is all moving too fast. Just a few days ago she was planning to come to the gathering in Chicago. Now everyone is gathering around her and doing hospice care. I can't wrap my mind around this. I'm angry at the doctors for letting her lungs go so long. And I want to hug Chris close and make it all better.

Hang in there Chris. Please, I pray you'll get to hear or read all the love letters being sent to you. I want you to know how special you are.

hugs,  irene

by shewrites, Oct 15, 2009 11:59PM
This is why we're all here:  to support each other through surgeries, diagnosis, chemo and everything that goes with it ... to send a prayer or group hug when needed ... and to face and mourn the losses when they can no longer be avoided.  

Chris has been a big contributor to this forum, and we'll miss her.  I will pray for her and her family during this journey.  

by Morde1955, Oct 16, 2009 01:26AM
To: Crecco
Forever in my heart, favourite mate xxx

by Pat4444, Oct 16, 2009 06:29AM
To: everyone
To not ever have met a person who has been through this and to have that person make an strong impact and impression on me has been extraordinary.

Chris's strength, kindness, wisdom and goodness has flown all over and embraced us.

She has made a difference, a kind and good difference, for everyone.

I pray for a miracle but if we do not have that, Chris and her family can live knowing that the person they have loved has made so many people better off.

She has made this struggle and this world a better kinder place.

I am sad but a life well lived, a life that leaves others better, that helps others is the finest thing we have on earth.

I am sorry but know we will never forget her and will be praying for her and those who love her, and for all of us.

by slee56, Oct 16, 2009 07:11AM
To: chris and all here
Chris was so encouraging to me when I was lossing my hair she was there with words to encourage me. I belive that she is a strong lady now she needs to be sorrounded by prayer and others who love her and yes even us on this forum. May God give peace and comfort to Chris........((((((((((HUGs)))))))))) sharlene

by turkee23, Oct 16, 2009 07:41AM
my heart fills with pain for her and all of you that loved her so much... im getting tears in my eyes and a ball in my throat for a lady i never even met.... i know she was amazing, you dont even have to explain.... she will be dearly missed and god will make her at peace.... she knows everyone has this crazy amount of love for her.....

by OzBron, Oct 16, 2009 07:55AM
To: Dear Chris
I am so devastated to here this. From the first time I came on this forum you have helped me and been a great friend and helped me not to feel alone. Meeting you at Springfield last year was fantastic - to see the optimistic energetic wonderful fighting spirit in person is a lasting memory (as was driving down the wrong side of the road from the airport!). You seemed to take us all under your wing and worry and care for us and cheer us up no matter what was happening in your life. I don't know that you understand the impact you had on so many lives.
I know wish you peace and removal of all pain and truly believe that you will continue to watch out over us all willing us all to continue to fight this demon. Lots of love to you and your family in this difficult time.
Bron

by lvfrogs, Oct 16, 2009 08:03AM
Chris,
If you are able to have family read you these words on Sunday, please know that you are forever in my heart. You have changed my life with your incredible love of life, spirit, giving nature and wonderful advice and help for me. You gave me hope when I was so down, even as you were fighting your hard fought battles. I can't truly explain in words what you mean to me. I know you will be God's warrior in this battle against cancer and will be watching over and caring for all of us.  Love you!!! Colleen

by westajul, Oct 16, 2009 08:18AM
Chris,
I just wanted to say thank you for all your support...it has been a source of strength for me. Also your unselfishness towards those on this message board is an inspiration. My prayer for you ...is that you know what an impact you have had on so many women and their families and you find some rest and peace soon. Love, Julie

by JC145, Oct 16, 2009 10:50AM
Dear Chris .. All I can say is thank you for being such a driving force and constant support for all of us here on this forum.  I pray that God lifts you in his loving hands and gives you peace.

Judy C

by helenl89, Oct 16, 2009 11:25AM
i am so devastated by this news i can't put into words what is in my heart. My prayers for peace and love go with you. I can;t talk right now.I;m to upset

by Tybear, Oct 16, 2009 12:13PM
My dear Chris...
I hope you are able to hear these words we are all sending to you. To know how much you are loved...to know how many lives you have touched...to know how greatly you will be missed.
I think about you every day and pray that you are in peace and free from pain.
I love you...
Becky xx

by Angie_Lou, Oct 16, 2009 12:47PM
To: Dear Chris,
My heart is heavy and I am at a loss for words.  Although we never met, I'm glad to have known your spirit for life through this site.  I'm also glad that I had an opportunity to at least speak with you on the phone.  My love and prayers are always with you.

Love, Angie

by fungirl1011, Oct 16, 2009 03:25PM
Dear Chris,
        I can't believe that this is happening!!  I just want you to know how much you are loved.  You have been there for so many of us, and now it is our time to be here for you.  Just close your eyes and feel us surrounding you in a huge hug and all of our love.  You are one amazing woman, Chris, and I will be praying for you.  I love you girl!!

Love,
Kasie

by Burnzie, Oct 16, 2009 03:30PM
To: Chris
Dear Chris,
I haven't been on much lately as I've hit more rough patches myself but I want you to know that I have felt close to you from the start of me being on this forum. Your journey and mine have coincided at times. Even though we've never met, I wished we could have , and had a few laughs.  You always seemed to handle this with a level head and a warm heart and I thank you for your huge part in this forum.  I hope you are not in pain and are at peace.
Love Karen

by Hindat, Oct 16, 2009 05:54PM
To: Chris
I am so very sad to hear this. You are an inspiration to everyone here and the forum will not be the same without your strength and friendship.  I wish I could have met you in person.  I wish you much peace.  


Love
Linda

by kismetfarm, Oct 16, 2009 08:25PM
This is the bit I find so hard with this nasty little disease.  It strikes down people who are just wonderful and takes them away.

Chris I'm so sad you didn't get to Chicago as you so wanted to. You are in my prayers.

by Teresa222, Oct 16, 2009 10:18PM
Chris has always been one of the strongest gals here fighting this battle. I pray she will be peaceful and without pain of any sort. She deserves only the best of circumstances now. She's done so much to help many people through this battle.
Teresa

by survivor_susie, Oct 16, 2009 10:41PM
Chris,
We all love you and are praying for you.  I wish there was more that we could do.
What a terrific support you've been to everyone here.  We wish we could be the same support back to you. We are all so grateful to you.
Sending you my love and strength.
Kathy

by PinkTissue, Oct 16, 2009 10:47PM
To: Dear Chris
I really do not know what to say. I have just read this post and I would be praying for you. I would never forget your kindness when I was lost over my mum's illness.

by PinkTissue, Oct 17, 2009 09:55AM
To: Chris
One more message from me....somewhere on the other part of the planet, there is someone who would always think fondly of you. I have never met you but I would always remember your words of encouragement. Thank you.

by silver&gold, Oct 17, 2009 10:19AM
I am so sad to hear this , Chris you are such a special Lady who always has time for everyone . You have helped so many women with advise and your caring words. You will always be remembered here because you have made such a difference to so many. I pray that you are not in pain . God bless you, wishing you peace.

Love you

Angie
xx

by ladyjogger31, Oct 17, 2009 10:51AM
To: Dear Chris
When I first joined the forum you were there to encourage me. I pray you will be comforted by your family and that you might feel the love and support sent by all who have been touched by your spirit. You have been an amazing Warrior against this disease!!
Love, Terry

by dian07, Oct 17, 2009 10:04PM
To: All
Bump

by justscore, Oct 17, 2009 11:29PM
I hope you find peace and know that we treasure you and your strength...........
Heidi

by Brownie3321, Oct 18, 2009 01:43AM
Dearest Chris,
You are an incredible inspiration. What you have endured in the last several years is so admirable - you are such a strong, incredible woman. I'm praying for you Chris. Praying everything runs smoothly and you are no longer in pain. Sending love your way, Deandra aka Brownie

by coogeegirl, Oct 18, 2009 06:00AM
To: Chris
Dear Chris

You are a wonderful kind person who was always the first to offer words of encouragement to those who came to this forum scared and confused. I hope they have made you as pain free as possible.

thinking of you across the miles

Jenny

by ireneo, Oct 18, 2009 09:01AM
To: Chris
Today is Sunday and I hope someone has brought a computer for you to see. There's such a long list of support and loving notes. You just have to see them or hear them for yourself. Do you realize what a terrific woman you are?

Much love and many hugs to you little lady,

irene

by butterflytc, Oct 18, 2009 10:09AM
To: All
  Just spoke with Linda, Chris sister. She will try and post at a later date, when she is better able. Right now they are just surrounding Chris with all the love they have for her.

    Chris is not going to be online today, she is not able. We have had our time with her, she is now in the arms of her family and friends. Sorry, but we must let our friend go. Her time with us is over. We love you Chris, Go in peace.

love
butterflytc

by gah_70, Oct 18, 2009 10:53AM
I know Chris won't be reading this, but I just wanted to echo Butterfly's sentiment.  I'm praying there is no pain, and nothing but peace as she slips away with her family by her side.  What a graceful fight this has been.  

With Sadness,
Gail

by fungirl1011, Oct 19, 2009 06:58PM
I too am so gald that Chris is with her family at this time.  We have to let her go and give her family the time they need with her.  I pray that she slips away in peace and pain free.  FLY HIGH WITH THE ANGELS CHRIS.  JESUS AWAITS YOU WITH OPEN ARMS.  I LOVE YOU!!

by sharon1630, Oct 19, 2009 07:51PM
To: butterflytc
I personally never knew Crecco, but she welcomed me when I first joined this site with warm words, strength and encouragement.  

Peace to you and your family, and hoping everything is made as comfortable as possible at this time.  

by Tybear, Oct 19, 2009 08:55PM
Peace to you Chris...may you be free of pain and feel the love that surrounds you.
I will remember you always and forever...give the other ladies a big hug from me when you see them :)
Hugs and prayers....
love Becky xxx

by Burnzie, Oct 20, 2009 07:57AM
To: Chris
As you leave this world you can truly feel that you gave it your best fight, with grace and dignity.  You have the respect of so many if us in this forum.  Thank you.
Karen

by Ramsay14, Oct 21, 2009 07:12AM
Godspeed Chris.  I have prayed for you to have peace and no pain at this time.
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