ovarian cyst

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I AM A 33YR OLD BLACK FEMALE WHO HAS HAD 3 CHILDREN WAS HAS DIED FROM BIRTH DEFECTS . I HAVE BEEN HAVING A LOT OF MEDICAL PROBELMS FOR THE LAST THREE YEARS. I WENT TO MY DOC BECAUSE I WAS HAVING CHILLS AND FEVER AND RIGHT FLANK PAIN WITH IRREGULAR PERIODS 30 DAYS OF BLEEDING AND THREE POSTIVE URINE EXAMS WITH BLOOD IN MY URINE AND A INFECTION MY DOC THOUGHT IT WAS MY KIDNEYS SO HE ORDERED A CAT SCAN AND THEY FOUND A VERY LARGE CYSTIC MASS, WHICH MEASURES 5.3.CM ANTERIOR AND POSTERIOR AND 4CM TRANSVERSE MY DOC WANTS IT REMOVED SO HE SEND ME TO A OBGYN WHO GAVE ME A ULTRASOUND AND COULD NOT FIND MASS I WAS TOLD THAT MY OVARIES WERE VERY HIGH AND THEY COULD NOT GET A GOOD PICTURE . I WAS TOLD MY UTERUS WAS SWOLLEN AND TILTED AND I WOULD BE WATCHED . I WAS GIVEN PAIN KILLERS BECAUSE I AM STILL HAVING PAIN AS IN THE BEGINING ,BAD GAS AND DIARHEA (diarrhea). I FEEL VERY AFRAID OF THIS WAITING GAME BECAUSE I DON,T FEEL ANY BETTER CAN YOU PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE ?