My spouse has chronic, debilitating pain and sees a pain specialist who prescribes him a 30 day supply (120 tabs) of 10/325 oxycodone/month for the past few years. Six of my spouse's sibblings and his father all suffered (died) directly and/or indirectly from chemical addictions. I accidentally discovered that my spouse is also getting another 120 tabs (2 week supply) of 5/325 from his PCP. He has been filling these each every two weeks and takes them himself (I am certain he does not perceive himself as having any 'problem' addiction-wise, but then I do not understand why go to 2 different doctors for the Rxs). I was worried about the potential for addiction considering the genetics, and his telling me that he only takes 1 tab 'once in a while'. I was also concerned that using these over the years, about his liver and kidneys. His doctor has been having difficulty controlling his high blood pressure. My spouse is an 'old' 59. When I made the discovery, I discussed my concerns with his PCP who tells me that my spouse should not be getting all that med and from 2 different doctors, and that they usually check a national database (but for whatever reason, had failed to do so). His PCP says that when his Rx is due to be refilled (by him), he will explain to my spouse that he will need to get his pain meds from his pain doctor. (He also takes Topamax, Cymbalta, Skelaxin, Lidocaine patch, Lipitor). My other worries, now are if I did the right thing, because what I read is that 240 pills/month to treat true pain is not harmful. I do not want my husband to suffer but taking that many pills and still being in pain, to me, signifies that even that isn't enough, so how many would be 'enough'. I think he will always have pain and needs to find ways to cope. I now feel guilty that I perhaps should not have called this to his PCP's attention (still, not being a doctor, I think if his PCP felt this treatment was safe and warranted, he would have continued with whatever treatment was medically necessary). Was I wrong to worry? My spouse does not know what I did. Also can I expect him to go through some kind of withdrawal? Thank you for your response.
I'm hoping that the PCP may help your husband understand that having ONE doctor take charge of and treat chronic pain will actually be helpful to your husband, in that it will hopefully lead to different and more effective treatment.
Your hubby's PM doctor probably thinks your husband is doing fine as he is, since doesn't know of the extra usage on the side.
There is some danger that if this is approached wrong, the PM doc may drop your husband, though. The best course of action is for the both of you to first sit down and talk together, and uncover the fact that he is obtaining pain Rx's from 2 doctors, and that you are aware of it.
Then go together to the PM doc, if possible, and have your husband explain that he was in more pain than he related, and that he felt panicked, perhaps, that the PM doctor couldn't prescribe enough to keep him out of pain. And that he didn't understand the options that could have helped him, if he had related this. The important thing is that he not be presenting himself as a drug seeker by denying or being defensive. Many doctors will welcome the chance to educate, and this may help clear the air and bring on new therapies for your husband.
If, on the other hand, your husband denies his extra use, or is super defensive, those are big red flags that his usage has indeed crossed over into the realm of "problem", and will have to be addressed as such.
Good luck...tough situation.