Wow, they start wrestling young!
Ya know, learning how to lose is a life lesson. We have to teach our kids to be good winners and good losers. I'd practice this at home with other things---- games that are physical, board games, etc. Don't let him win all the time and have him verbalize "good game" either way.
If this problem is isolated to wrestling, I'd tell him that if he cries, he can't do it. Then if he still did, I'd take him out of it for the rest of the season. Then you can try again next season and hopefully he'll have learned the lesson that we have to be good sports as well as having emotionally matured some. good luck
I'm having problem too. My son is 5 yrs old, he is very strong, tough, active little boy. But with wrestling he loves it but always seems to cry when he thinks he's gonna loose, we explain to him it doesn't matter just try your hardest, its about having fun. He will be winning 13-0 and as soon as his knee touches mat, he looses it and sobs, now at practice too! I don't kow what to do :( it's embarrassing how much he cries and cries and cries, he's an emotional wreck it's like overly crying
Look around at the other mats, dad. Boys who wrestle cry all the time when they lose. Considering how tough wrestlers usually look, it's a surprise how often they burst into tears when they are pinned or injured.
You don't see crying like that on the soccer field, or the baseball field - in my experience it's limited to wrestlers. Baffling. And they seem to do it unashamedly - they're not blinking back tears, they're sobbing.
My son wrestled for two seasons, the competitors were 4 - 18 years old, and the older boys burst into tears as often as the little ones, even in front of their girlfriends.
It must be very emotionally stressful to wrestle is all I can think.
If this is the only time you see it, don't worry. At the end of the match he does still have to shake the opponents hand, so he can't be excused from doing that, but crying apparently is fine from what I've seen.