Your daughter needs some help and someone to talk to to find out what is going on, get her some help.
WOW, can I just say that I am so sorry for everything that you are going through with your daughter. I am thinking that her diagnosis may be off key. It sounds more like she has a mood disorder. I am NO doctor but from the kids that I have been around that sounds to me more of a mood inbalance. I would want to try her on something like Lexipro or have her re-evaluated. I know that you said that money was tight and honey do I understand that I am the mother of 4 children, I'm lucky enough to be married and have my mother living here with me she watches the children for me so that I can work but I've been out of work for over a year due to a work related injury and I am now looking for work again because I have to change careers anyway not the point the point is I understand a tight financial situation. Do you have insurance? to where she could be re-evaluated and possibly re-diagnosed? Sounds like a little more than ADHD??? I hope that you figure out what's going on and are able to keep your sanity in the process!! Good luck.