I have two boys a 9 year old and an 11 year old. I have been married for two years but he is not the father of my children. I am having trouble with my 11 year old. He has been disrespectful to both myself and my husband. He will call us names, throw things around and fight with his brother when he gets in trouble. He lies about not having homework. He basically does not want to do anything I ask him to do. I have punished him by taking everything away from him (electronics) and not being allowed to go to his friends house but he still acts up. I'm at my wits end on what to do. Does anyone have anyone have any advice.