Great update! So happy it all worked out!
good for you did it I would have slowly told her but heck its you!!!!! good luck with every thing else your going to need it haha the worlds a scary place
I am glad it all worked out. Best of luck to you, Mr. Wonderful and your kiddos.
***UPDATE***
Thank you both for all your help. As it turns out, yesterday, she was asking my sister in law questions about her cousins (who are only half siblings). I had planned on telling my daughter the truth when I got home from work (she's been coming to work with me b/c she is sick). Anyway, I work with my sister in law. Like I said my daughter was asking her questions and then when my sister in law answered them, my daughter turned to me and said "So, Momma how is Logan only my half brother?" So, I took advantage of that moment and took her in a private room and I just told her the truth. I was sensitive about it, but I was completely blunt. I didn't sugar coat it. But, still sensitive to it. She had A LOT of questions, but I answered them all straight up. No lies, no sugar coating. And of all the emotions she felt, she wasn't mad and she wasn't hurt. She wears her heart on her sleeve, so I would have known if she felt hurt. She said that even though CP isn't her real daddy, she still loves him and he will always be her daddy. I told her that was up to her. She also asked to meet JF. I told her that I would show her a picture of him and I told her she has a sister (his other daughter) and they actually know each other and like each other. I told her when she is about 10 or 11, I would let her meet him because for one I don't know how to get in touch with him and secondly, he may not be ready for her to meet him (he was when she was 4, but I wasn't telling her then) and also if he decides that he doesn't want to have a relationship with her, she will be able to handle it a little bit better than she would now. In the end she decided that she is lucky b/c she has 3 daddys ( JF, CP, and Mr. Wonderful) Then yesterday when it was almost time to go home, she came to me and threw her arms around my neck and squeezed me as hard as she could and said "Thank You Momma for telling me the truth. I love you so much!" I told her that I loved her too and that I would never lie to her about anything and anytime she had questions, to ask. Now, to see where things go.
slowly tell her what the truth is if she has a question let her but don't tell to much stop after a little if see wants more go ahead. btw if you need more just ask I have something like this were my older brother never told me something so yeah if yeha need help ask me or teddy that was a good anser my friend
Start with the fact that her brother is still her brother and she is still his sister. Then slowly explain from the beginning the generals between you and her biological father (allowing her to ask question as she feels she needs to). Then move on to the man she has always thought as dad and let her know that you are open to letting her meet her biological father. A dad isn't the man who gave up the sperm, a dad is the man that was there for a the ouchies, fevers and hugs. Hope this helps.