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how to tell my 7 yr old he has another father

my son's father "disappeared" after being weekly involved the first 3 1/2 years, I have since married and have another child and my 7 yr old calls my husband daddy and thinks he is his real daddy.  now the boy's father is coming back into his life but how do I tell my son that he has another dad?
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134578 tn?1693250592
Does the bio-daddy have legal rights at all?  If not, do you want him in his son's life right now?  
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thats difficult, if the boys father vanished for good then you can tell him when hes older, i really wouldnt know what to say because hes goin really confuse your son now, hes gotta take it slow by bonding with him slowly not rushing in
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134578 tn?1693250592
I would talk to a counselor or pastor about this.  There has to be a better way than just bluntly putting it out there.  Keep in mind that Dr. Laura calls the kind of dad who is only involved for a while and then disappears a "sperm donor."  The man who raised your son and who he calls Daddy is his father.
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