tantrums

I would like to know as to how to solve my sons irritation as soon as i tell him to do any task. For instance i tell him to brush his teeth as soon as he gets up. But he never wants to do till i take him to the washbasin and give him the brush and toothpaste. He is scared to go in to his room at any point of the time. How do i teach him the good habits and also take of the fear to get into his room

[margypops]

You dont say how old he is, how about you let him take control if he is old enough to, as for the fear dont make an issue of it, if he gets no attention from it ,it may go away.Let him do his teeth when he wants to ,and if he does persist in not cleaning them talk to him about how cleaning is to keep his teeth and mouth healthy.