is it possible

is it possible to get pregnant using a condom but started with out one
i was told there is such thing as precum is it the same a *** and if you bleed the next day
would that be implantation bleeding?

[tristansmom]

Hi sweetie

Well-- i have a few things to say.. i'm not judgemental and I want you to take what i'm saying seriously. I'm 23 years old. I see you are 15.. right?

It is always possible to get pregnant. Condom or no condom. Birth control or no birthcontrol.. the only way for you not to guarantee no pregnancy is no sex. I know in this day and age.. It might be normal to be havng sex at 15.. So i'm not going to tell you not to do it.. HOWEVER.. I AM GOING TO TELL YOU TO GET EDUCATION ON THINGS BEFORE YOU DO THEM. Sex is something that is supposed to happen between and man and a women that love each other.. and that are responsible enough to deal with whatever happens.  Is this the first time you arre having sex? If you bleed the day after ... it is NOT implantation bleeding. That doesnt happen for a couple weeks. That happens when an embryo attaches itself to the uterus... ( it happens when you are pregnant .. around the time your next period would supposed to come)
If it is the first time you are having sex ... you could possibly bleed right after.. or if you are expecting your period.. it could possibly be that. have you had many partners? also have you gone to see a gynecologist yet? If not you should do so..

If you dont have a parent you can talk to about sex... you can speak with a gyn,, they will be able to talk to you about it. and if you still aren't comfortable with that. .use the internet. BUT PLEASE educate yourself before you end up with an STD OR HIV or a pregnancy.

Each month every woman ovulates differently. ( ovulating is the time around when you can get pregnant) Look ovulation up.. so you can make sure you are aware of these days.. so you do not get pregnant.. (if you will be having sex) also make sure you look up stds and hiv and stuff liek that so you know what can happen to you if you do now use protection...... ( and even with protection that can happen...... ) be careful who you select to sleep with .. at 15- you shouldn't have to be thinking about this stuff right now.. You are still a yong lady.. but if you are don't give it up to just anyone!!


Did something happen that you think you are pregnant?