I have a very stubborn and hard headed 4 year old son who refuses to toilet train. He is so unbelievably smart knows and also tells me when his going doing a wee but just will not use the toilet he was at one stage weeing at the toilet than desided to stop. We have tried rewards,sticker charts,ping pong balls,no nappies or pull ups he just stands there and wees him self not fazed at all by what his done he still hides to poo when i catch him trying to hide and take him to the bathroom he screams and crys i dont want him to think of using the toilet as a bad thing i done know what to do