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what should i do i caught my 5 year old son with his face in another boys butt?

i caught my 5 year old son with his face in another boys butt (same age), skin to skin. what can i do to talk with him about it, how do i get him to talk to me about it? he doesnt want to talk to me about any of it. and i am worried because i cant look at him the same anymore, he wants to kiss me and i dont want to kiss him back anymore. i was so upset that i vomited and was crying. CAN ANYONE PLZ HELP ME.
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you say he doesn't want to talk about it but i think you need to sit him down and have a chat and let him know the behaviour was inappropriate and that those areas of the body are private and only they can touch them. I understand your affected by this, but understand this was not intentional and he was possibly curious about this boy (not in a sexual way obviously). Unfortunately this sort of thing does happen with children, but it's up to those who raise them to inform them of the right behaviours to follow. :)
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Don't let this change your feelings about your son.  I sure he was just explore.  As a kinder teacher kids this age do all kinds of stuff we would never understand.  It's are jobs as parents to explain what is and isn't ok.  I agree that you should speak to him  and explain why his actions were not ok but then hug him and move on.  Hope it goes well!
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thank you for your help and advice, we are working through it together, and i just wanted to say thanks
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