Also I don't see a best response button but you get my vote when I find it. Thanks again.
Thank you for your response sorry I haven't had a chance to reply as we have had a death in the family and I haven't been online lately.AS to our little one he is back to eatting again. I or should I say we still have no idea why he has these little spell's. We do try and eat our meals with him but sometime's his schedule is a bit off of ours.He doesn't seem to mind either way it was the same . I have not tried soft small piece's of fruit as of yet he does have teeth but still hasn't figured out they're for chewing . I have tried out the very small quick dissolving little snacks which he is starting to learn to chew but he will still gag some when trying to swallow piece's and not just of those just chunky little pieces of anything even mashed star pasta that comes in some baby food's but at least he is back to eatting again. Know to get those chomper's working and for him to stop gaging and will be good .I will try the bananna's pretty soon Thanks so much for your advice it's much appreciated !
Have you tried giving him very soft pieces of food that he can possibly pick up and feed himself? Like banana or something? Maybe he just isn't hungry when you try feeding him. I wouldn't force it on him. Are you eating at the same time? Babies like to mimic.