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Feeling discouraged

My husband and I are not actively trying to conceive, but last month we had unprotected sex 4 or 5 times during my fertile window. I am now 13 dpo, my period is expected in two days. I decided to test this morning and I did see a line, but super faint and possibly an evap line. I want to be pregnant, and wanted to surprise my family at thanksgiving time but I'm afraid I won't be able to. Anyone else feeling discouraged?
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Same I wanna to have a baby so badly and I want to be surprised my husband and my families if I'm pregnant tho
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I also feel the same way. The say to not think about it too much because you stress yourself out and that doesn't help, but it's hard when that's all you really want.. I've been with my husband 10 years and still haven't got pregnant .. I know the feeling ladies...
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I know, that's what my husband tells me, but you're right. It's almost impossible to not think about it! I'm so sorry, I can't imagine feeling like this ten years! I've just been married 6 months. I pray you're able to have a baby soon!!!
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I understand how you feel.  We want a baby and so far no luck.  A friend sent me an article that I loved.  Why God waited so long to give me you.  Basically it was because God was waiting to give you the perfect child.  I need to hear this.  It will happen in His time. :)
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Thank you for your comment. I sometimes feel like I'm alone in this but I know there are so many other women who feel the way I do! And its sooo hard to be patient and wait for a baby when you want one so badly. I hope you're given a baby soon!!
:) we've been trying for several months and no luck.  However, we've been extremely stressed.  Our home was flooded in June and we are still working on it.  I keep thanking God for my wonderful husband and if it's His will to bless us with a wonderful baby.  I hope you too will soon find out you are with a little.  When it's ment to happen it will.  Enjoy this time with your hubby :)

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