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i really want a baby and this is the 3rd baby i have lost.. i go doctorss and the doctors say my womb and eggs ars very clean nothing wrong with it but I don't understand i get pregnant but it doesnt last for long :( my first baby was 5months i had to get a abortion.. my 2nd one was a week.. my 3rd one was 7 weeks and 4 days, i seriously dont know why the hell my pregnancy doesnt last for long! !!  i feel soo down and aline since my last baby i feel like an never going to have a baby again!! :((( what do i have to doo!!
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I lost my son around 5 month I didn't even no I was pregnant and my partner wanted another so bad but I wasn't ready after 3 years of being on the pill I stopped talking it well I missed a couple after Xmas with travelling I didn't feel ready in my self but I got pregnant and am now 27 weeks... best advice I would say is don't plan it if it happens great! Tey not to put to much pressure on yourself :)
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the dr did say that i should get a anti d done when i am 8 weeks or if i start bleeding but when i went to the hospital and told them there was no midwife around so i couldn't get it done atm i am in turkey and there doctor are really bad and all they care about is noney they dont treat you right after had ny miscarriage  the doctor didnt even tell me to come back i had to call and ask when i would stop bleeding and when would i be ready for another check up.. my blood has stopped am going to wait for my period  aswell then try to do another one whatndo you guys think?
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well i dont know where you guys are from :) but in london getting the baby removed if its more then 4 months its called abortion.. i had to get it abortion because the baby stopped breathingb so i had to get an abortion :(( i have got everythink checked out they saying nothing wrong with me everything is normal so is my husband but they said how are blood groups are not the same.. and the dr said that i shouldnt go on the air plain untill i am 4 to 5 months and i shouldnt go on when i am 7 months to 8 i didnt know that with my last pregnancy  i had gone on the airplane  3 times jn a day :(((
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Stay strong hun. I also lost 2 baby. First in april 24 at 7 weeks 4 days and 2nd in june 23 at 7 weeks 3 days just keep faith in god
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Okay I never heard anyone call it an abortion, I have only heard of it having to have a dc done . I thought she meant she had a abortion at 5 months , not lost  baby at  5 months
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At that stage it's classed as an abortion the baby could have things wrong with it or it could have stopes breathing
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I'm not sure if I read this right you had to get an abortion at 5 months ?
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It has a lot to do with more than good eggs and uterus as well. Get your hormones checked, and thyroid. With that many consecutive losses they should start running more in depth tests. Especially after your first that you lost at 5 months and had to have a d&c.they should have looked into why you had a one so late. I doubt it's your husband though since you are getting pregnant. I lost two babies and we actually had a compatibility test done to check if genetically we could have healthy babies and everything checked out. It turned out to be my thyroid and pcos causing havoc on my babies.
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Maybe it's not u, have ur man get checked out as well. And best of luck Hun I hope everything works out and they figure out what's going on. And I feel like it happens more when u less expect it. At one point my husband had a baby fever it wasn't working we said will try end of 2015 and I got pregant beging of January we didn't expect it at all but to be honest we are super happy
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Stay strong hun. I know how you feel I just lost by baby Tuesday n I was 6 weeks. Just stay healthy n string your time will come.
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