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[ShumailaAli]

I am 27 years old.Its been one year of my wedding.. no success for conceiving so far.. I am really disappointed. I cant concentrate on my work. I am afraid how long I will have to wait for baby. Last month my doctor started me on clomid. I ovulate, there were 3 eggs but no success for pregnancy.now she has changed to ovi f. I amnot hopeful now l.feeling very down :( praying to Allah :(

[geekyshorty]

All I can say is that it was God's will. We haven't actually gotten married yet, but we are committed to each other.

[drained1sttimemom]

I have a friend that had gynecological problems. She started going to an acupuncturist and her periods became regular and a few months and would stay regular for 6 months. Then she would go back. She also said it helped for her migraines. I saw this segment on discovery health with men that had trouble with their sperm.  They were put on a diet very, very high in fresh fruits and veggies and garlic. Half of the men impregnated their wives. Maybe that type of eating will help with your own gynecological health? It's worth a shot. And it's very healthy!

[ShumailaAli]

Thank you so much all ladies.. thanx for all of your suggestions. Specially 1namalion and mrsjr. You people boost up my morale. I have decided I willnot think about it and try not to worry, I will just pray to Allah. But please keep me in your prayers. Thanks alot

[Prayerwarrior22]

Similar story, almost 1 yr of TTC . I'm laying in bed right now feeling all blah . This is hard  & even though all the messages above are encouraging TTC will continue and the thought of it happening months or yrs later don't feel amazing . We are doing vacation , praying, yoga , doctor but the process is so emotional when it comes to that week of the month aaaaaaaah This too shall pass and good will come out of it :-l

[LittleNorth]

A friend of mine was told she couldn't have children naturally so they stopped trying.. A year later she found out she was pregnant with her son. Keep trying and don't over think it!

[KnCarroll87]

I am 27 also. September of 2013, my husband and I decided we would start trying. After months of agony and stress, we decided that if nothing by a certain date, we would stop trying and plan a mega vacation for our 2014 anniversary. I didn't get pregnant so we stopped trying and started planning. I got pregnant that month. I suggest just going with the flow and let it happen on its own. I know how you feel though, every time I got my period while trying, I was an emotional wreck. I would start crying no matter where I was and would lay in bed for 2 days after just crying : (

[tudee84]

Try doing zumba. I know it might sound weird but it worked for me and my fiancee friends wife. I've been trying for a year and a half I was going to take medicines to help but I didn't. It took for me to take a trip out of Texas to visit my fiancee and Zuma to finally become pregnant. My fiancee friends wife had been trying for 8 years she started doing Zumba and became pregnant. Also stop stressing so maybe take a trip to relax with your husband but before do zumba. Just a suggestion.

[Waiting4MyLittleBlessing]

Sometimes it just takes time. It took us 16 months to conceive and all our fertility tests came out great! For me, once I stopped thinking about it and stopped letting my "baby thoughts" consume me...I got pregnant 2 months later! Just try to enjoy being newlyweds and have fun...it will happen!

[Shannir]

I have pcos and one ovary. It takes time. I did get pregnant with no drugs. A few tips:
1. Try to save the sperm(few days before ovulation don't have sex. Also no Masterbation on his part)
2. Have fun
3. Vacation(few of my friends come back pregnant)
4. Keep him out of saunas and hot tubs
5. Track your ovulating
Enjoy trying

[1NAMILLION]

Whatever you do...stay encouraged..I went through the same experience but it took almost two and a half years after hubby and I married and finally one day November 12,2012...i'll never forget it...i cried to God after a dr appt and i was so thankful to hear a good outcome on my test results that i was just thankful for good gealth and I decided that I wouldn't stress about a baby anymore and that I'd just be thankful for great health and my wonderful life...besides my other dr (obgyn) already said I had blocked tubes, pcos, almost morbidly obese and  wasn't a good candidate for fertility options. Nonetheless, while I didn't accept what the obgyn spoke over my life, I wasn't going to focus on it or babies anymore...I couldn't becausecI was going bonkers. ..i mean even crying at times when I saw newborns and new moms enjoying their cute precious lil babies...my heart wept..I wanted that too...well anywho, after deciding not to dwell on it...I found out I was already 5 1/2 mths pregnant on November 28, 2012....:-) ...yay praise GOD...I delivered a healthy and beautiful baby girl that we're just in love with and if that wasn't enough,  hubby and I have been blessed again less than a year after baby#1 with a healthy lil boy (Due Feb 2015). Sorry for being long winded but I said all of that to say stay strong and always hopeful no matter what...just relax and enjoy your new life with hubby and like magic...babies will come. I'd always had people to tell me relax, babies will come and it angered me because I'm like hey...you have kids...I'm getting older and pressed for time but now in retrospect I totally understand what they were trying to get me to understand and not to mention that stress can also slow down the process.

Best wishes and I am in agreement in prayer that you are blessed to be a mom ASAP. I hope to hear the good news soon :-) . We never know the reasons of God's timing but it's always on time...I personally believe that mine was delayed for him to physically prepare my body, align everything that needed to be aligned for my babies to have a super properous and blessed life and to be a witness to someone else regarding this matter.

[mrsjr]

As hard as it is...you have to TRY to RELAX!! Me and my boyfriend tried for a year with no luck. I was so depressed everytime i heard of sum1 getting pregnant or saw a baby i wanted to cry...often i did. These last few months i stopped stressing about it and just put it in the Lord's hands. Instead of stressing each time we had sex if it "worked" i just didnt think about it and focused on other things...i am now 7wks pregnant!! Trust me i was in ur shoes i kno how painful this is but plz just TRY TO RELAX AND DONT GIVE UP!! Have FAITH and just trust that when the time is right...it will happen. GOOD LUCK and i will be praying 4 u :-)

[no2comingsoon]

Geez geeky thats a quick get to know u and wedding lol.

[Tati107]

Stay positive. My brother and sister in law got married and weren't able to conceive quickly. But 4 years later she gave birth to my niece and exactly a year later she gave birth to my nephew. Best of luck to you!

[mummiesblessin]

These types of things take time I m 27 also n I ev been with my partner for 11 years and I have been trying to get pregnant for almost 3 Years and it finally happened. I wasn't even thinking about a baby n I was laid off from work so I guess things happen when the man upstairs wants it to. So my advice to you is to never give up :-) I m due in 8 more days with my baby boy NOAH

[geekyshorty]

I have a friend that, after being married for a year, was told she couldn't have children. 4 years later she had her first child and now has 5. I was told at 19 That I would never have children. I still tried with my ex husband but no success. I'm now 30. I met my current husband January 6th, 2014 and we conceived on January 23rd. These are testaments to show that when the man above is ready to give you life, you will receive your dream. Keep your head up. What's meant to happen will happen in due time.

[hinaawais]

Don't take stress dont think about it I know its very easy to say thats what everybody told me to do and its took me six years to conceive and here im now with a missed miscarriage couple weeks ago but im sooooo hopeful Allah never leaves u alone Allah has a rite time for you just prayer to Him Good luck:)

[Felishhh]

Be patient hun. It will happen when it's supposed to.