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trying to get pregnant?

Hi all I had a miscarriage in November 2014
First one ever I was so disappointed as was trying for quite a while,  
I have been trying ever since
And been using opks soon as my period end as some time I ovulate early
I have been. Having sex on the fertile days since January 2015
And still nothing I keep getting my hopes up and then I end up getting my period and get disappointed again.


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Hey to give u a bit of encouragement i have a healthy 3 yr old then i had a miscarriage in April this yr and fell pregnant str8 after without even having a period. Keep ur faith up u'll b a happy mummy yet!! Xx
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I had just started my cycle today I am actually 3 days early,
She I'm not sure when I'm going to ovulate this month  my cycle this month is 24 days as my last period I had was 9th may my cycle is normally every 27 days but it's 24 days this month when should I start testing with opks
Or should I not use
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The best way to get pregnant is prenatal && birthcontrol prenatal is for mother's that want to be pregnant too!!  In birthcontrol pills also helps you get pregnant when you stop taking it in have sex
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I went through multiple miscarriages and one thing I was doing wrong was trying to get pregnant the women's body needs at least 6 months in order to get pregnant and have a successful pregnancy I know it's hard but it's the best you could do I know this because my specialist told me this and know I'm expecting my 3rd baby and can't wait to have him/her in my arms one thing to remember the more you stress about it the more difficult it will be for your body to get pregnant give it at least 1mnth no sex and make sure you SO does not masturbate or anything so when you have sex his sperm is strong and you can get pregnant but remember u won't get pregnant right away so just relax and let things role the way they have to good things come to those who wait
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Thanks for all the advice I  i will do that at stop the trying to,  best just to not try and then hopefully will  happen and not think about it to much
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I was trying an trying and finally when I gave up boom I got pregnant.  I'm 22 weeks now
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Stressing and thinking about it too much makes it harder to conceive.
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Yeah having sex everyday lowers the chances to you getting pregnant. You could wait a week or two since semen seems to be more concentrated the longer you wait to have sex.
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holly i honestly went through something similar... i kept trying... used opk, pre seed, temping.. you name it. i'm currently 20w5d pregnant with my son and i truly got pregnant when i stopped trying. so much easier said than done, but it's so true.
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I use opks.on day 9 after my period I start testing early
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My cycle is every 27 days???  
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How long are your cycles? Generally the rule is that you ovulate 2 weeks before your next period is due to start. Also look out for Egg white Mucus at your cervix. Sometimes you can see it on the toilet paper. It has the consistency of egg white (the reason for it called Egg white) Sometimes it can be streaked with creamy white discharge.  I found this out based on some research I did. I didn't plan to get pregnant until after Uni and used a condom.  But here I am...pregnant.
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How long are your cycles? Generally the rule is that you ovulate 2 weeks before your next period is due to start. Also look out for Egg white Mucus at your cervix. Sometimes you can see it on the toilet paper. It has the consistency of egg white (the reason for it called Egg white) Sometimes it can be streaked with creamy white discharge.  I found this out based on some research I did. I didn't plan to get pregnant until after Uni and used a condom.  But here I am...pregnant.
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I'm also due on a period in 4 days,  but hope I don't
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Do you think that having sex too much can do it coz I do tend to have sex every day sometimes twice a day  can that  have a effect in getting pregnant???
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When I got my Iud removed the dr told me if I wanted to get pregnant to take prenatals.It's best to talk to your doctor though and see what's going on. Best of luck!
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