why is not happening?

[Loyalgirldana]

Me and my bf been together for almost 2 yrs we both want baby ... Idk what else to do ... we've been trying since june 5,2013 ... im a healthy women ... what can I do or what am I doing wrong? He smokes weed every day can tht be the problem?

[Proudmama86]

Just had to put 2 cents in but like has been said may affect other ppl differently but I know someone who smokes every day and has 5 kids another who has 4 and another who used to that has 4 or 5

[bonitagirl747]

And one of the best things is to just relax and have fun, thats usually when it happens ;)

[bonitagirl747]

Smoking pot does affect sperm, its in medical journals and reports. It may not affect everyone the same way, but it can have a negative affect. If you've been trying that long, have him try to stop. You can see a doctor at that point, but they will probably tell him to stop also, plus you'll end up having to pay just to recommend that first.

[HappyMomB]

It took me 3 years to get prego with my son and 5 years to get prego with my daughter,  everyone is different.  Stressing about it makes it not happen,  relax and relax some more,  It well seriously help.

[Loyalgirldana]

Thanks for the advice everyone I've been stressing about this for a long time!

[tat87]

My hubby smokes every day and we got preggo on our first try. My sister and her husband are the picture of health, and it took them two years with the or first, and barely three months with their second. Some times it just takes your body a little while to figure it out. Don't stress :)

[Mommyoftwo_2015]

Definitely a problem if he's smoking,  do you really want him smoking after the baby arrives? Maybe get him to stop and try knowing when your ovulating that should definitely help

[LoveCake98]

Weed can be a problem.  It affects sperm of smoker which can cause birth defects too. You should see doc for fertility advice.  If this is daily recreation I would ask is he willing to stop.