I had one done a couple days ago and now that I'm pregnant it hurt a little and I also had a little spotting the next day.
I dunno if your not relaxed it's pretty painful and uncomfortable. But it's done pretty quickly. They stick a duck bill looking thing in open yuh up and swab yuh pretty simple.
The qtip comes after the huge plastic object they use to open you up
They use a giant qtip and rub it really quick along the opening of your cervix to collect cells and test for possible cancers. Not painful and over in a matter of seconds.
they stick plastic flask like object into you and it opens up and the feel around and check your olvaries and take samples for tests I have always hated it ...it hurts virgin or not