2 fathers/paternity confusion

[marishaxoxo]

Ok.... I have a regular cycle, 28-30 days. I'm almost 30 wks pregnant, due date is june 11. My question is can intercourse from august 30-september 4 give me a due date of june 11? I had my period september 7. My first ultrasound was at 7 weeks and she said my lmp was september 5. I had sex with another man not my spouse september 13,14,16,17,18. I had a positive hpt on september 30, it was dollar store and faint but I retested 2days later and got 2 more positives. What is the likelyhood this is my husbands child?

[kerriekab]

Your baby was conceived around 19th June give or take a day or two so i would say its definitely not your husband's baby. I'm sorry you're in this situation and hope it works out ok for you!

[Motherhoodo12]

Sorry but i meant baby med.com

[marishaxoxo]

Yes, its been clear to everyone involved in the situation. We are seperated and actually reconciled for a short time and seperated again almost immediatly. We already have a child so id prefer him, but with all the signs pointing so positively to tye other man I think a paternity test wouldn't even be necessary. I mean I'm just trying to be realistic. The other man and I are not together, but did I do the right thing saying this is his baby? Him and family are involved. Just don't want a dramatic event at the birth. There are too many factors against my husband for him to be the father right?

[alissa828]

It is almost definitely NOT your husband's and near positively the man you were cheating with.  Early dating scans are the most accurate and there is a clear difference between a baby at 5 weeks and one at 7 weeks. Does your husband know he isn't the father?

[marishaxoxo]

Thank you everyone. Its a very confusing situation. My period is like clockwork, it returned the month after I gave birth to my first child, so my period in septembr was after I slept with my husband so I know chances are slim sperm could have survived. I see a lot of posts here of women who mis periods for weeks and still get negative hpt, any reason why my hpt would come up positive so darn early??  Like 6 days before missed period.....?? Also, if it was my hubbys baby, at my dating scan at 7 weeks would have to be off by two weeks right? If she's his it wouldn't make sense a dating scan would measure that much off that early right?

[MamaBear0612]

Yeah, I think it's not your husband's. My dates are just a little later than yours, and I conceived somewhere between the 22nd and 27th, which would put you conceiving maybe a week before, but the 4th doesn't seem possible. I also had really early ultrasound dating, so my dates are fairly accurate.

[Motherhoodo12]

Go 2 *******.com & it will give u the days u likely had intercourse

[pandababii]

Im also due June 11 n i was told my conception date was September 17...

[Jali1208]

Check the dates you had intercourse with your spouse. You actual ovulation peak was from the 18th-22nd. Hopefully this helps a bit. Take care!

[3rd_time_mummy]

I would say other guy cause according to ur dates conception date was around 19th September.

[buggie216]

Oh...i say that cuz your 5 weeks ahead if me...i concieved the end of oct...which would put you mid sept...

[buggie216]

Sounds like the other mans... :/

[car30]

Do you know the dates you had intercourse with your husband,as the dates with this other person would be wen you were ovulating. .