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4295582 tn?1358796415

21st birthday

So my 21st birthday is in 19 days(April 19th) and falls on a Friday. I'll be about 26 weeks pregnant and I have no idea what to do. My fiancé asked me what i want/want to do and I'm just lost. Can't do what any normal 21 year old would do. My family it's taking us to arigatos one night so i don't wanna go out to eat twice. What should i ask for/ask to do? Ugh I'm lost
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4295582 tn?1358796415
My family is taking me out to eat at my favorite place on Saturday. Arigatos, it's a hibachi style Japanese steakhouse. And I'm inviting my fiancé's parents and little sister. But i wanna do something Friday (my actual birthday) with my fiancé and/or friends or something.
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4974520 tn?1366757591
I turn 21 on the 18th and i decided just to organise a dinner for my family b close friends although i will be only 3months at the time i think a nice dinner at a nice resturant is how i want to celebrate :) Happy Early birthday :)
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5009178 tn?1369953775
I feel you... I will be 21 in July and I will also be 6 months pregnant. My family is taking me to Jamaica and I won't be able to drink.. but that's okay.. idk what I would do if it weren't for them planning this vacation before I got pregnant! At least now we will be 21 forever so after baby comes we can have a drink or two :) hope you enjoy your day :)
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I turn 19 at 38 weeks (end of July) and in Australia 18 is the legal age for drinking etc. I think if bubs not here yet I won't be doing much at all but sitting and twiddling my thumbs! :)
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3114635 tn?1354636142
I turned 21 when I was 38 weeks so really couldnt do much and it did get me down. I went for 1 meal with my family and that was it, my partner also turned 30 when I was 36 weeks pregnant and we didnt do anything for him either. We plan on having a great day out now baby is here and celebrating as a family. I know it sounds boring but we couldnt really do much. He pamper idea sounds good cos your gonna be at a good time in your pregnancy to have one
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I turned 21 last week and it was not as bad as I thought. I went to a little get together with some friends and they were all drinking but it didn't really bother me as much as I thought it would.
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I know how you feel I turn 21 while pregnant to :(
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I would have a glass of wine to celebrate, then get a prenatal massage and a mani/pedi ... Happy early 21st ladies :)
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shopping trip ohh yeah stuff to pamper you how about a nice day at a pregnancy spa....
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Im the same way will be 21 on may 4th and i have no clue what to do! If u think ormf anything let me know!
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