2ND Miscarriage

[princess236]

I have just had a second miscarriage, I was 6 weeks, I was praying just to get pass the 6 week mark. But that didn't happen. My husband is so diappointed, and hurt. My doctors says everything is normal. I am drained physically and emotionally. I don't want to get up in the morning. I am tired of hearing maybe it's not the right timing. Or just try again. I can't  keep going through the same pain. I need help because I am about to breakdown.

[crg098]

Did you have all the normal tests done? I know some docs won't test until 3 miscarriages. I also had two miscarriages, both at 9 weeks. I am currently 19 weeks pregnant with a little miracle (because he was a surprise. The other two were after months of trying). I would ask to have the testing done if you haven't had it already. All my tests came back normal which was frustrating because I didn't have an answer. Now I'm glad they were normal because I know the first two were just unlucky.

[StillTrying101]

Hang in there, and you know what honey, if you don't want to get out of bed tomorrow...don't! As crushed as your husband is, tell him how you fell and ask him to tell everyone and let him deal with it. Let him hear all things people say when they don't know what else to say!
Hang in there!
My thoughts are with you, we have been there to, multiple times so I do know how you are feeling.

[chantal21]

I understand what you are going through.I am so sorry you are going through this! I too have experienced 2 miscarriages. 5 weeks with the first and 10 weeks with the second. It is not easy by any means to lose a child. There were days I just cried and cried and didn't want to do anything. But I am very thankful for a supportive husband even though he was so crushed, he really helped me through it. I felt like I would never become a mother, but I just kept praying and asking God for strength, because I knew I couldn't do it on my own. My doc at the time said there was no explanation for either of them. I just keep resting in the fact that God knows what is best for us. Maybe there was something wrong with my babies when they were developing and if that's the case, I always rest in that even though it hurts. But don't give up sweetie. Just because you had 2 does not mean you are going to have a 3rd. I am 24 weeks now and I just thank God everyday that I get to experience this. I am still terrified even though I am past the "danger zone". But we need to stay positive. Let yourself heal emotionally and mentally and when you are ready, try again. It's not over yet sweetie! There is still hope. Keep your head up and remember you have tons of support from all the ladies on this site!! =)  I will be praying for you. <3

[thinkb2k]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  I miscarried at 16 weeks and I honestly didn't know what to do with myself when I came home after the procedure.  You feel so empty and lost.  And just as soon as you feel a little better, your hormones knock you back down.  I took it one day at a time and that is the best any of us can do when we experience this type of heartache.  Talking with the supportive, wonderful people on this website was a huge support for me and I'm sure it will be for you as well.  Please don't give up - I know it's happened twice for you BUT one thing is for sure, you are destined to be a mother.  My thoughts are with you as well.

[depressed748]

I too have been through my second misscarriage and I was tired of people telling the same thing. I do realize now that it may not be the right time. Just keep trying third time is a charm. I am sure God will bless you with a miracle soon, I will keep you in my prayers. I do know exactly how you feel.

[princess236]

Thank you for the encouragement, and understanding. God Bless you.

[princess236]

Thank you for the encouragement. God Bless you!

[princess236]

No I don't think so.

[kcs08]

I'm so sorry!  Did your OB send you a referral for a high risk doctor?

[alicia216]

So sorry about your recent loss. I don't know what the right thing is to say to make you feel better, but you will be in my prayers. I also experienced the pain of a m/c so I understand how emotionally draining it is. I wish you all the best. God bless.