2nd baby......need help

[angelmommie]

So I am half way through my second pregnancy, 21 weeks, when I first found out I was nervous as I was already a single mom.  but when I was 14 weeks into my pregnancy my 18 month old daughter soriah passed away in her sleep and it has really changed alot for me. I seem to be having a hard time accepting this pregancy now. I really just want my baby back. I found out yesterday that I am in fact having another girl.....and this really breaks my heart. I feel as if I am resentung this pregnancy through the loss of mt daughter as its still very fresh and could really use some help or advice.

[ashglasper]

Dang this scares me so much my babys fathers first born passed away from sids ... I heard DO NOT LAY THEM ON THERE STOMACH ! They can drown in there own throw up and its hard for them to breath check on them every 30 mins ... so sorry for your lose hun

[kaidenjmom]

SIDS is probably the cause. I had a friend who 19 month old died from SIDS. BUT MOMMY STAY STRONG AND REALLY SEEK HELP. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT.

[mommiKat]

Wow that is so heartbreaking, so sOrry for your loss. My grandma had twins,  and at 8 months one twin passed away & she became pregnant months later.  She still grieved her baby but found joy in this new life she would recieve. I totally believe this is an expected feeling to have right now,  but I also believe you will love & cherish this baby just ss you did your first.  Its just hard right now while it being so new. But I do agree this is something you should A) pray on & B) consult your ob about. . They'll know how to help you. Congratulations on baby #2, stay strong mommy & God will see you through. God Bless You

[angelmommie]

She just stopped breathing as far as I know. I was at work my, my bf watching her....she laid down to take a nap about ten because she usually got up with me at 5 and ge text me at one saying she wasnt breathing. They trued for a little over an hour to bring her back. But they are still investigating the situation cod is still pending...but they did tell me there was no obvious reason as to why she passed.

[kaidenjmom]

You need to sell professional help. You will probably go into postpartum depression. Yes you can get it while still pregnant. And you are at a higher risk because of the death of your daughter. So sorry that this is happening to you. But please seek help. Talk to your ob. They can start you on the right path.

[huncho]

If you don't mind me asking why did she pass away in her sleep sorry for your lost

[HannahJohnson]

I am so so sorry this has happened to you. I could not possibly imagine what your going through.  All I can think to say is to pray. Pray hard and find guidance in the Lord. God bless you