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Advice :(
so I'm 19 years old, and the father of my baby left me when I found out I was pregnant. He is living in a different town now, a few hours away but all his friends are still living here. I have just been told by one of his friends that he is telling everyone that I was sleeping with him and two other guys at the same time, and then I got pregnant and tried to pin it on him. It's far from true, there is no chance this baby could be anyone's but his. I was not sleeping with anyone else within a couple of months of seeing him. I'm so stressed out and upset, I love my baby, and I'll do anything to look after him but this is really pushing my stress levels through the roof. I'm only 13 weeks along by the way. Sorry for the long post!
From my point of view because I'm a guy.we can be serious ***HOLES,I'm sorry to here about what your going through.ee are all immature in alot of aspects. Basically he's been in and environment with no responsibility for a while I'm guessing" that a sudden change would make him run away and hide reality.some people want an excuse to not face their mistakes which I'm not saying your child is because children are a blessing.if he acts this way toward you then I would suggest child support or a civil agreement "if" he man's up because he owes you and your child that if not more.
From my point of view because I'm a guy.we can be serious ***HOLES,I'm sorry to here about what your going through.ee are all immature in alot of aspects. Basically he's been in and environment with no responsibility for a while I'm guessing" that a sudden change would make him run away and hide reality.some people want an excuse to not face their mistakes which I'm not saying your child is because children are a blessing.if he acts this way toward you then I would suggest child support or a civil agreement "if" he man's up because he owes you and your child that if not more.
If he wants play it that way have the paternity test and get child support . Then use his slander against you to insure he cant get visiting rights. You don't want someone like him near your baby.
A bit of advice for future romance is look for older guys. My babys dady is 8 years older then me and far more mature and emotional stable then guys my age.
A bit of advice for future romance is look for older guys. My babys dady is 8 years older then me and far more mature and emotional stable then guys my age.
This happened with my first pregnancy but let me tell you if he doesn't wanna be there fine you can't make him but you can be the best mother and father that baby will ever need.if he doesn't wanna be a man and take responsibility then find a man who will love you and that baby! Its not worth fighting over. Sure you can do a paternity test and try to force him to pay but that still doesn't mean he will believe it. Just love that baby!!
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sorry he is such a jerk. His true colors came out. When you have the baby, you legally demand a paternity test, name him as father on the birth certificate and file for child support. he can say whatever he wants but that is proof and should shut him up.
sorry!! do you have a supportive family?
sorry!! do you have a supportive family?
Guys can be real immature , my baby's father and I broke up . Well I broke up with him because he changed hanging with his friends 24\7 and drinking he might be 21 but I'm 18 I matured he needs to do the same . But don't let him get to you he seems like a little kid he needs to be there for you but if he's going to act like this and stress you out you don't need him . Your baby boy will love you for everything you do just stay positive
Guys can be real immature , my baby's father and I broke up . Well I broke up with him because he changed hanging with his friends 24\7 and drinking he might be 21 but I'm 18 I matured he needs to do the same . But don't let him get to you he seems like a little kid he needs to be there for you but if he's going to act like this and stress you out you don't need him . Your baby boy will love you for everything you do just stay positive
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