I'm 30 weeks and my cirvix is soft. I am a fingertip dialated. I am scared I don't won't my little boy to be born now it's to early
YAY Fay! Its just a sign of what your body is supposed o be doing :) I've been checked for dialtion twice now (1st @ 22 weeks, 2nd @ 29 weeks)...my cervix is soft, but nothing opened yet :) Now that the baby flipped to head down at 30 weeks and I dropped, my contractions aren't so strong and as much as I was having then itwas breeched. Butthe pressure in my hips and the waddling is FAR too soon for me! Usually when I drop, I only have 3-4 weeks left. I'll be 32 weeks on Monday and I have my appointment at the following day. So I'll probably be checked again, along with a U/S...
But like my doctor was telling me, if I feel like my water is leaking or i start to bleed, to come in!! If anything likethat happens to you, go right in!! 4-6 contractions in one hour is another sign!!! I hope you keep your little man in, good luck Hun
I wouldn't be worried about going early, tts actually normal to be getting BH contractions at this point. I went into the hospital at about 33 weeks and they were showing up on the monitor but I couldn't even feel them happening. Also its a good sign that things are progressing normally for your cervix to get soft. As for dilating some people start to dilate a month or more before delivery and end up going late. Also, starting about now the doctor should start checking you regularly to see if you are dilating.