Am I over reacting?

[MommasAngel14]

My boyfriend likes playing yugioh -.- idk why out of the years we've been together he's never mentioned it or played it. & he plays with his big brother.. well the last couple of days hes been playing for hours & doesn't spend much time with me & it pisses me off. I've been going to sleep by myself & spending most of the day by myself & we fight now cuz I bring it up & he says I'm over reacting & last night i said something & he was like ok I'm done for the night I'm going to sleep with you & then I wake up & he's playing again! I was so pissed! Am I over reacting?

[MommasAngel14]

Well at least I'm not the only one! & yeah it is better then him going out & doin shady things I just get mad but lookin at it that way calms me down a lot! I hope its just a phase cuz I'd go crazy if it was all the time! Ughh men! Lol thank you ladies!

[InsaneRoman]

I thank God he got past it. He still does it sometimes but it's more like every few weeks now instead of until 3am on his only days off... when we have plans the next morning!!! I think things got real for him after a bleeding scare at 10 weeks and he's a lot more vigilant about being home with me. I think that whenever it hits him as "real" he'll turn around.

[mamaofone2be]

I always think the same but then I read how some fathers are out not caring n doing shady things while my man is here just playing a simple game...so I don't mind

[KatieBugIsSweet]

I know how you feel my fiance loves yugioh,  pokemon and kajudo.  He's like always either on YouTube watching vids of people playing cards, on his ds playing pokemon or going thru his cards. It annoys me a lot too cause well be in bed and hell just lay there with his game and ill be like um. Hello? Yea I'm here. So I know how you feel. It causes a lil tension between us. But maybe just try and take interest in it. I let my.fiance teach me to play kajudo and I got addicted to it for a while lol. But if you don't like it then I'd sit down and tell him its really upsetting you that he pays more attention to his game rather then his girl.

[muslimahmama]

It's a phase. Yes you need to talk to him and tell him you miss him. My hubby did the same with magic the gathering, video games like world of warcraft and call of duty but he knows how I feel and he usually gets over the addiction.

[InsaneRoman]

BEEN THERE SISTER. Freaking Magic The Gathering is gonna be the death of me. x___x He still does it, but we've talked and he does it less because I told him it makes me feel ignored.

[MommasAngel14]

Yeah but he doesn't know how to do that

[Bree61714]

Key is communication and compromise. Ask him to spend x amount of hours playing and x amount of hours with you.