BABY FATHER ADVICE

[monie2]

CAN I GET SOME POSTIVE INPUT HOW I CAN STOP WORRYING BOUT MY BABY FATHER ITS LIKE I CANT KNOCK THESE FEELINGS I WANT TO JUST HAVE NO FEELINGS FOR HIM AT ALL WE ARE NOLONGER TOGETHER BUT HE IS GONING TO BE IN HIS CHILD LIFE BUT ITS HE DNT WANT ME NOMORE HE WANTS TO BE SINGLE..

[ribaby15]

same thing is happening to me.
except we were trying for this baby because we lost our son in September last yr. he proposed in November. and then a week after I tell him im pregnant, hes like you need to move out so they can move back in.
we live in Ontario and they live in alberta. like, wtf is wrong with men?

[divadivine]

Dear, I already lost Myn when I was 3months pregnant too. I am going through this pragnancy alone, he is now staying with another woman, and that kills me big tym. I dont know whether I am angry because I still love him, or because I feel that he unfaithful. I am now 32

[specialmom]

Well, child support means that he is contributing to her financial needs which is part of the responsibility of parents.  It is your child's RIGHT to receive child support from her father.  It is his duty.  By law in most places.  And there are situations in which you have no choice.  If you were to ever seek something like state aid, they would first seek child support from him as in the state would do that.  It's proper and right that he pays child support.  Being in her life is great but he needs to contribute to the cost of raising her.  good luck

[monie2]

Hes gonna be in her life but donot want to be a family an thats all i really want is a family but i wont put him on child support if he is in her life

[specialmom]

I'm sorry he hurt you.  I would go after child support for your child!  Your baby deserves that and both of you (you and baby) deserve better.  peace

[monie2]

I feel everythang happends for a reason god gonna bless me an yu ladies. With way better guy

[lexiiss_24]

Same her we broke up when I was 5 weeks because he wanted to be with his ex /:

[monie2]

Thats right i just was saying i have to just get it in my head he dosnt want me or i will keep hurting myself he keeps saying one day we will get together but one day i want be there.

[mommi2BeeAgain]

Im kinda feeling the same way. I feel it only gets worse. I have one with mine and another on the way. And it hurts to say i feel he dont love me like he say he do. I give n give and never get nothing bk. I feel along all the time. He say hr wants us but i dont believe it. Im disrespected. But one thing i know U cant hold on to something that was never there.

[monie2]

Thanks its just i thot it would be one thing an it turned out to be something way diffrent

[Shortcake_libby]

Yea its hard..My baby daddy don't want nothing to do with me or the baby..I just don't see how he can go on with his life knowing this is his baby with out a daddy.I don't know why I do this but I don't cry even if wanted to its just I don't want nobody feeling sorry for me knowing that it hurt so bad.! Just keep your head up and think positive

[realnewfiegirl]

Im in the same boat :'( i cant stop crying mt heart is broke :'( we bOth wanted a family together n now im 27 weeks pregnant he just walks away :'( its killing me inside and out   i hope he comes back i really do . Best of luck

[monie2]

Its so hard...;(

[monie2]

Rite i feel they same way i want a family.but hes not ready it feels like my life is on hold for him

[ebolanos]

I'm in the exact same boat. We broke up before I knew I was pregnant and he is excited now and wants to be a good father but doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. I'm glad my baby will have his father but it does make me sad.

[monie2]

Thanks!:)

[jenz21]

Well my friend I think only time will help. U will be hurt u can't really ignore that specially because u are pregnant and us females get even more emotional specially when u no longer have your partner there. Maybe u should just think about your baby that should be your priority.  The best feeling is doing good for yourself while the ppl that hurt u see how well u are doing. Good Luck