CYCLE DAY?DPO?TWW?(2010)P12
I heard the same that if a woman has an orgasm after a man it helps the "little swimmers" to go where they belong. It is a favorable habitat. As for positions I heard plain old missionary is good because it is closest to the cervix. Don't really know how true it is but we shall see.
I've heard that if a woman orgasms after the man cums, that helps his swimmers along because when we orgasm we contract. As for position I find mixed opinions whenever I search.
Yesterday I tested at 11 DPO and got BFN. Today I tested and got very very faint line. Even DH could see it. The same thing happened last cycle when I m/c'd. I have internet cheapies so I will test often. I'm going to test tomorrow. If I see a line then I'm going to get a digital to confirm. I'm still having cramping/twinges off and on. I feel bloated. My nipples pertrude more than usual. Breast tingling at the top and they feel fuller. I mean I feel really snug up top. I've had more creamy cm than usual for this time in my cycle. The test said to read after 5 minutes. I read it at about 8/9 minutes. I did drop it on the floor when I went to pick it up and read it, so I don't know if that screwed up the results. I hope I'm really seeing what I'm seeing.
CONGRATS on the engagement!!!
OMG!!! I love it! Father Johnson and Mary Rose...LOL!!! But that is a good idea, except I'm usually on top, and after a minute it gravity takes affect...what goes up must come down, and we've got black silk sheets! I'm usually pretty quick to roll over lay down, and prop up on a pillow.
Ladies do you think it matters if the woman orgasms, are you more likely to get pregnant if you do? I've tried researching online and can't find anything on the topic at all. DH and I have toys that help me, I can't get one unless I use them while we're BDing, they're external toys so nothing goes in down there (aka Mary Rose, lol, faith too funny!). BTW what position do you ladies think works best? I'm usually on top, but should we be trying DH on top more or what?
Congratulations!!!!! Now just to get that BFP!!!
I just got a BFP on Jan 15 and I must have taken 10 PG tests before then all BFN. It wasn't until the morning of my expected period that I used a FRER digital and it said yes+. I even took a test the afternoon of the 14th with a BFN and then the morning of the 15th BFP. So it is definitely possible to get a BFN and then a BFP.
Thank You all for the Congrats!!!!
Faith- I hope a bfp is in my near future but Im not so lucky with the Jobs. Chicago is one of the worse places to work. No jobs at all and they just cut over 2000 jobs this week. My concern now is working. Im playing for a miracle!!!
Heatherm4- LOL, no we're not having a wedding until we have the money to have the big wedding that we want which probably wouldnt be for a couple years since we're trying to move out of Chicago this year. I would be crazy if i tried to plan a wedding in a couple weeks lol..... Jamaica, that sounds very nice. How was it out there?
SLIVERCHEER- Hey, how everything going???
just checking in. Af is due tomorrow. We shall see.
I wonder if anyone has ever got a BFN and then a BFP.
I remember when I was younger, I got pregnate very young. Well I didnt even know I was, my mother mad me take a test, because she found out I had sex for the first time. Anyway, I tested two day in a row, all BFN. Then the third day I got a BFP. I was young but dont remember much ether. But needless to say, I hope this time this happens to me.
SMJ--I WOULD SUGGEST BD EVERY OTHER NIGHT AND AFTER UR DONE LEAVE FATHER JOHNSON INSIDE MARY ROSE FOR LIKE 5 MINS..JUST LAY THERE...
That is funny, God works in mysterious ways!
Smj- Dh and I would BD every other day from CD10 to CD17 I think. A couple of those times I also laid down right away, put undies back on and put a pillow under my hips for about a half hour. I also didn't get up to go to the washroom unless I really had to.
Amanda- CONGRATS! OMG...did you say a couple weeks?? Ahh planning a wedding within a couple of weeks?! Crazy woman!! That's why we went to Jamaica to get married....soooo less stressful and sooo worth it!
Silvercheer- I have the same thing. I miscarried Oct 9th and I'm due Oct 15th! I thought it would be amazing if it was the same day. Kind of weird already that I'm due in Oct.
AMANDA--CONGRATS...THATS AS BIG AS A BFP IN MY BOOK....NOW WATCH UR NEXT SURPRISE WILL BE A BFP....
GILLIAN--HOLD ON GURL I KNOW WHAT U MEAN
CD12 and still ttc very hard, no unusual symptoms. Sex is painful yet again when we BD though i'm getting pretty used to that now, my partners got to watch how far and hard he penetrates (Sorry TMI) or i'm doubled over in pain, this is when i know i'm ovulating
Thank you. Congratulations on your successful pregnancy. Yea that would be ironic if you had the baby on june 1st. But that could be a blessing.
Congrats Amanda that I'm glad he caught you off gaurd it is always better when you're not expecting it!!
7yrs later - sorry for your loss, your story sounds like mine, DH and I have been together since 15-16 and got married when we were 22-23 and now have been married a year. We had a loss due to a blighed ovum which ended in a d&c June 1st 2009 ironically I'm 22 wks pregnant now and due June 13th. How weird would that be if I had the baby June 1st of this year?
wow~!!! That is soo cool! CONGRATS!!!!! :)
Hey Ladies. HE PROPOSED!!! Caight me off guard because i really thought it would happen on Valentines Day or in April but it happened today. Im sooo happy. Im glad it was today because if it did happen on Valentines Day then it wouldnt have been a surprise. We've been talking and now it looks like we're getting married alot sooner; within the next couple weeks. Wow, I know!!!! Pray for us please. We're both really happy and no matter what, we'll keep or Faith in God. Thank you all so much for everything ( Sorry if im emotional right now but this is a real emotional moment for me).
Congratulations for everyone with BFP"S!!!! For everyone who recently got AF, please dont give up! Every month you see AF willl make you every more happier when you get a BFP!!!! God Bless you all!!!!
morning gurls!
well its 14dpo and there is so far no sign. i have little pulling feellings ont he side of my abdomen and thats it... kinda wishing praying holidng thumbs all the above! ahhhh this day can not go fast enough!
heather thanks.. the patience has taking so meny very strict talks wiht myself !!!!pointed finger int he mirror! you will not test today wait and see! lol:)
Sorry you got another BFN. Don't give up hope until AF shows!
thankyou faith,
I tested agian, and I got a BFN. So i hopr i got a false negative. but this whole ttc does not seem to be on my side, So I an going to get some OPK this month., I think.
TO ALL WAITIING ON AF TO ARRIVEE..PRAY AND HAVE FAITH...BABY DUST TO ALL....
ANGELLA---THATS RIGHT UR NOT OUT......KEEP THAT ATTITUDE
I forgot if I said congrats to you yet or not, so CONGRATS!!! How often did you BD?
BD like a crazy woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ooooh that would be a long tww for sure!! HOpe the time passes fast!
SSBD to ya'll!!