Hey ladies! I never post things like this, but I am genuinely at a loss. I live in Louisiana and my baby's father and I are not together. I had decided to never ask him for a single thing, because I truly believe that a parents who supports their child has a right to custody. I have been very concerned about whether or not he will actually stick around and not break my baby's heart with his typical disappearing act. We dated for about 2 months before I was pregnant (despite loestrin 24), so it's safe to say I rushed things and wasn't aware of the type of person he is. He has 2 children, one from a previous marriage, and he is rarely a part of their lives. He doesn't even speak to his 10 year old son. Since our split, I have discovered that he uses drugs pretty heavily. Now-here's the problem; I sat down to do a budget this evening, I cannot afford to pay my student loans, plus rent (I am a Florida resident, so I will be renting a place here in LA) as well as my health insurance. I already have a job, but I don't think it'll be enough. Do I pursue him for child support, risking the chance of him having some legal right to partial custody? I don't want that. Also, his six year old daughter adores him, however rare her chance to do so. I HIGHLY doubt I'll get a dime. So jail time is inevitable. Do I pursue support, knowing that I will be taking away a little girl's daddy? I am so torn and am wondering what y'all think. I don't want to hurt his daughter-but ultimately, I am responsible for MY child.