Father?

[Rodeo88]

I was sex with my ex on august 26,2011 and started my period on august 29th but it only lasted afew hours.I then had sex with my new bf on september 1st....im 9 weeks preg. whos the father?

[Rodeo88]

yeah,prob should...lol

[babyV2012]

I Think you should call maury

[Rodeo88]

what do you mean if these days are 100% accurate? How far off and in what ways do the days have to be off before my ex(26th) could be the father?

[cminamyer]

This is only based on an EDD of June 5th to give you an IDEA....DNA test is the best way to know!

EDD June 5th puts an women with a normal cycle of 28 days of a LMP of August 30th so your 29th period would add up with that. With that being said IF and only IF these day are 100% accurate (which you have no way of knowing) then your ex who you had sex with on the 26th is not the father.

With and EDD of June 5th you would have most likely implanted on the 13th of September...whoever you slept with on the 8-13 of September would most likely be the father.

I'm giving you this information as your best guide to get the guy you had sex with on those days DNA tested as the father first because he is most likely the father. If it turns out he is not go from there, but you should indeed get a DNA test to be sure.

[Clysta]

We can't tell you who the father is. The 'short period' could have meant a lot of things or nothing. You need a DNA test.

[nicole8989]

Honestly it is really hard to tell.  April was my last actual period.  Then for the next two months i bleed for one day. And july i missed my period.  I am 21 weeks. With a baby girl. And my conception date was. Jun the 26 per say dr.   So in may i had a unexplained 1 day period.  

[Rodeo88]

All I really need to know if what that short period(29th) meant and if my ex(26th guy) is the father...

[Linzola1]

You need to have a paternity test once the baby is born to know for sure. No one can tell you who the father is except that test. The baby and father both deserve to know.

[jessandian]

Um not something to guess on! You need to tell whoever it with now that it might not be his.  It's wrong to lead someone into thinking its there child when u have no idea. Need to do DNA testing when u have that baby. U shouldn't be having sex with so many people let alone unprotected!  Don't do that now because what if some one has a std? It baby cooukd get very sick. I hope it taking care of yourself. Good luck.

[Clysta]

Also, we need to know everyday you had sex on as well as if your cycles are irregular or regular. If they're regular, we also need to know your cycle day lengths. IE is it a typical 28 day cycle, longer or shorter.

[Clysta]

We need your last proper menstrual cycle and/or your due date---not when your doctors want to induce, as this is not important.

[Rodeo88]

Are there any guys I can run out? using just those dates

[Nessamorin]

I agree with clysta, a dna test needs to be done, and it sounds like theres more than two guys, good luck! Try not to stress so much

[Nickels123]

Did you use any protection with any of them? If not I would be getting an std check because you have to think who did they sleep with. The reality is that your just gonna have to be honest with all three men and tell them. Once the baby is born do a test to see which one the father is.

[NicoleW09]

I agree. Anytime you have sex with multiple partners in any given cycle, it makes it nearly impossible to determine paternity based on dates. The only way that you're going to know is to have a paternity test once the baby is born.

[Clysta]

If I'm understanding, you had sex with 3 different men in a short time span. Because of this you need to have a DNA test to confirm paternity--this is not something you want to guess on, and the child as well as the father deserves to know.

[Lesley27]

lol so June 9th is your estimated due date from your Dr... correct?
From that date they are talking about inducing 2 weeks early... say May 18th ish... correct?


okay so this would mean that its most likely the guy from Sept 9th then...

[Rodeo88]

i had sex with another guy on sept 9th and had a bad 4 wheeler wreck on sept 10...so the doc advised me to be induced early(2 weeks) so...and my last doc appt the heart beat was at 168 if that helps any...

[Lesley27]

ok well your cycle is measured by the first day of your period to the first day of your next period... most average to around 28 days but everyone is different...

but anyway with the due date being june 5th ish it still doesnt line up with either dates...  somewhere between Sept 9th -17th is the concieved dates... so did you have sex at any of these times?

[Rodeo88]

usually last 4-5 days...and say around june 5th

[Lesley27]

okay so what is the due date they gave you? how many days is your cycle normally?

[Rodeo88]

the doc told me i was 9 weeks from the U/S...and the period before that was the end of july

[Lesley27]

Did they tell you that you were 9 weeks from an ultra sound? if you are 9 weeks that puts your due date for around June 7th and conception between Sept 11-19th? based on a 28 day cycle.... ???

[Lesley27]

when was your last period... not the one that lasted a few hours... the previous one and when is your estimated due date