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First time having sex.

I had sex for the first time last Saturday, which was almost 6 days ago. My boyfriend didn't have an condom on, and he sticked his penis only half-way inside me because since he didn't know how to put an condom on, I didn't want him to break my "cherry". He didn't ejaculate inside me either, he only stook it inside me for like 2 minutes then took it out, I was wondering is there still a possiblity of me being pregnant, even though he didn't ejaculate or break my "cherry"? Starting today after I .... "pleasured myself" (sorry if this is too much infromation, I just need answers), *** was in my pants ofcourse, but there was also slimy red stuff, that looks like ***, was on my underwear, what possible answers will help me understand on what is going on?
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No you can't be pregant unless if he cums in you and breaks ur cherry ok ur good  and safe don't worry ok.
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Slimybrd is blood he did brak your cherry
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20821310 tn?1523161878
If you can swallow huge chunks of food then you can swallow a pill that is smaller than a Advil. Anyway, for you to not know the answers to some of these things and you have access to Google, and if you can't swallow a tiny pill, then take it from a mother of 2 pregnant with my 3rd, that you do not need to have sex which =s children! Educate yourself, get a career, go to church , pray everyday! Good luck!
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676143 tn?1312941771
The pill I was on, Ortho TriCyclen Lo, was really tiny, sometimes I took them without water.  It may be easier for you to swallow them than you think.  It was a reliable form of birth control for me for 6 years - until I stopped taking it to start having children. :-)  So, think about the pill if you don't want to go another route, and at least try a month's worth to see if you can swallow it.  Like I said, they are really tiny, or at least the brand I used was.  I am sure the others can't be much different.  Good luck to you and I am glad you are thinking about birth control before engaging in sex if you're not ready for a baby. :-)
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Well it prevents it for as long as it's actually used for. You change it once a week for three weeks, and then on week 4 you leave it off. This is when you get your period. As for pills, I've never heard of anyone taking them with food. If you're going to use those, you're going to just have to swallow them, or use something else. You will also have to take them everyday at the same time or they're not effective. Missing them also reduces the effectiveness. For the first week of using the patch you will also have to use condoms so it can become fully effective. For the pills it can take up to a month or more to become fully effective and you'll need to use condoms at all times. If you ever miss any pills or forget the patch, you have to use backup birth control (condoms) for 48 hours or more.
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I know their are various of ways to prevent pregnancy lol, I just rather take the pill instead of the other prevention's. But my other option would be the patch, how long does The patch prevent me from getting pregnant and how often do I have to change it?
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I had the patch for about 5 months and I got pregnant on them. I wouldn't personally go for the patches. I never missed and made sure it was on me good where it never came off my skin and made sure it was in the location it tells you to wear it. Just saying. I now have the nexplanon. It's a bar underneath your skin in the under part of your arm. Last for 3 years and you can have it taken out whenever you choose if you were to choose to have a child. Only bad thing I'll say about it is that it makes your cycles very irregular. I wont bleed for sometimes 3 months to 4 months then I'll get it and bleed for a good 2 to 3 weeks heavy. Then other times itll only last me a few days and have light flow. I never really know when I'm gonna have mine or know when I'm even ovulating. Me and my boyfriend are trying to have a child right now and it's been 4 months I've had it out and I'm still not pregnant yet and we have unprotected sex atleast 5 times a week because well, we're just freaks like that with each other you could say but when I still had it, we could have unprotected sex and did and I NEVER got pregnant. Been with him now 2 years and a year and a half of that time I was on the nexplanon. He doesnt like the feel of condoms and condoms make me raw really quick so we never use one. I loved mine and planning on getting it back after we have a child together for sure.
I got pregnant when I was on the birth control patch too! It was when I was a teenager and oh my god it happened just like you said!  

My boyfriend was alot older than me and he would never ever wear a condom and he just pretty much completely assumed me being on the birth control patch would take care of it.

187316 tn?1386356682
There are a whole bunch of birth control options that dont involve pills at all. I would suggest going to planned parenthood or seeing your obgyn and having them go over your options.
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1194973 tn?1385503904
There are numerous other birth controls other than pills out there as well if you don't want to take them. (or can't) There's the patch, ring, shot, IUD--not recommended if you've not had children-- and also Implanon. Brings back memories...I remember teaching my husband how to use a condom, lol. Anyways. Look through each option and decide what will work best for you. Some of these are long term, such as Implanon, the IUD and the shot so they might work better if you want something longer term that isn't taken daily.
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Yes it did leave some irritation in the vaginal area, so its possible that the bleeding is caused by irritation? Also I'm planning on telling him to practice how to put one on, I'm not that irresponsible to have sex un-protected. Also I have a Phobia of swallowing pills, so its kinda hard to take "per-caution". But I still have one question, will the pregnancy pill work if I smoosh it and put it in some kind of food, then swallow it?
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187316 tn?1386356682
Even if he didn't break your hymn im sure it still caused irritation and possibly some bleeding. I doubt you are pregnant and if you want to engage in sexual activities without getting pregnant maybe you should have him practice putting a condom on a banana until he can do it to himself. Also, you might want to get on birth control as well since even with a condom nothing is 100% guaranteed.
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