HELP! please!

[listie_me]

im now 11wks 3dys and i feel cramping like crazy is it normal? and im starting to notice im bleeding a little but not much and is it normal too? im really worried i might be having a misscarrige and im really concerned about this could anyone please tell me whats going on should i go see my doctor?

[listie_me]

well my boyfriend and i have decided we will try to have another baby in a couple of months but we want to wait till im better and we need to get over this loss and i hope the next one will be a healthy one! and crysi i hope you get what you want im so happy for you and congrats to everyone who is expecting and who have wonderful bundles of joy!

[worriedbabe]

i'm sorry for your loss. i believe you will get over it in time and go on to have healthy babies. i wish you the best of luck through this difficult time.

[Crysi]

I think its a girl but we will see

[listie_me]

well in 3 weeks you will find out what it is so what do you want a boy or a girl? i wasd wishing for a girl but things happened im still not going to get over it

[Crysi]

I had a miscarriage last year when I was 18. My baby stopped growing at 8 weeks 1 day and I found out through ultrasound at 13 weeks. The most important thing you can do is take the time to grieve for your baby. I was convinced my last pregnancy was a boy, and since we didn't know for sure we went with that, and gave him a name. It made it easier to heal with a name attached instead of just saying "baby"

I am now 16 weeks 4 days pregnant, and although I'm terrified everyday that something will happen to this baby so far everything is okay. Don't give up hope, like jf34 said even though you have a had a miscarriage doesn't mean it will happen again.

[jf34]

You have to grieve number one. That's only normal. But I had a miscarriage at 17 and got pregnant a month or two later, I can't remember because it's been so long ago but I got pregnant almost right away. God has a reason why this happened so keep that in your mind. It's a hard thing to go through, but find peace in knowing that you can start trying again shortly and even though you miscarried once doesn't mean it will happen again! Try and get as much rest as you can it will help physically and emotionally.

[listie_me]

well i went this morning and i found out my baby passed away so im in a state of being depressed right now so im really feeling sick like i feel like i want to throw up im so sad i would do any thing to get my baby back :'(

[zakanunu]

You have also just made me feel better.  Thank you.  I don't have any bleeding but I am cramping quite a bit today and feel so heavy down there.  

To listie_me... go the doctor - just to clear things out.  If I see blood I am definitely going straight to my doctor.

[listie_me]

thanks that makes me feel much much better idk when i can see my doctor i hope a/s/a/p but ill let everyone know how it goes when i get there :)

[evthing4reason]

i went to er with severe cramping and was told it was "normal" and not to worry unless i was bleeding, the next morning i started bleeding so i went back. I then had brown discharge for about a week after......and am currently 35 weeks pregnant.....
So just so you know, cramping and bleeding doesn't always mean a miscarriage

[ckenny]

i would bc the nurse will most likely contact your parents.

[GRose]

Go to the nurse and tell them you are cramping and bleeding, they will let you go. Slight cramping is normal but if it is accompanied by bleeding you need to get checked.
Let me know how it goes.
Good luck hun!

[listie_me]

but one more thing im in school so how should i do this go to the nurse?

[listie_me]

0k thanks for telling me this soon im so scared thansk so much !!!

[PJ466]

Please call your doctor

[sweetangel7]

Cramping and bleeding are not a good combo...one or the other can be fine but together they cause more possible concerns...Please call your doctor...I'm sure they'll see you ASAP.  

Good luck!