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I had sex with this last wensday. we used a condom when he ejaculated then we fooled around and i want back in without for a condom for a sec.

NOW she was suposed to have her period on friday which she didnt and said it could be stress. NOW she took a plan b pill 4 days after and she still hasnt gotten her period. so today she went to get a test and said she was pregnate almost a week after she was suposed to have her period.

[B]NOW MY QUESTION IS.....can you tell if a women is pregnate that early? and if the kid is even mine? thank you in advacnce[/B]

This discussion is related to Pregnant or too much stress.

digintoyapockets · Answer

no this is good i dont wabba be the daddy lol

eel81 · Answer

if she is pregnant doesnt sound like it would be yours.

kjbutcher · Answer

If you want to check this out yourself you can google "luteal phase"

kjbutcher · Answer

apparently from what I have been reading, you need to be pregnant for at least 10 days before your period is DUE to be able to sustain a pregnancy.  This story doesnt seem to add up, sorry!

digintoyapockets · Answer

and be as blunt as you all would like i wouldnt have it anay other way

digintoyapockets · Answer

this was a big leason and now i can go back to living my life lol thank you women so much oh man....no words can disceribe

digintoyapockets · Answer

we all are and thank you ladies so much this is why i love women lol

ovaz129 · Answer

:)  Yeah...

jennymay · Answer

Lol, looks like we are on the same page here :)

jennymay · Answer

I am saying she was either already pregnant, the test was a false positive (which is VERY uncommon) or she just lied to you about what the test said. Sorry to be so blunt, but the facts just don't add up. 

And I hope you learned your lesson, if you don't want a baby, always, always, always use a condom, beginning to end!!

ovaz129 · Answer

What she is saying is that if you had sex 2 days before her period, like you are saying you did, a pregnancy test would not show a positive until 7-10 days after you had sex.  So, the test may actually say she is pregnant, but just not with your baby.  (Assuming you haven't had sex with her before this time.)  With the dates you are giving, it would be pretty impossible that you impregnated her.

digintoyapockets · Answer

so ur telling me that the test is bogus and woulnt read anything? or that to be 100% sure is to take it again

and boy did i learn my lesson lol

ovaz129 · Answer

YEP!!!

jennymay · Answer

If it has only been a 8 days since you had sex, there is no way she could get a positive result. Implantation takes 7-10 days, and even after that it takes usually another week to detect the HCG in your system. So unless she went to the doctor and had a blood test, it would be way too early to tell if she was pregnant.

Am I right ladies?

digintoyapockets · Answer

but the last time shes had sex was 4 months ago from what she tells me

digintoyapockets · Answer

dude u are making me a happy man

ovaz129 · Answer

And, from what you have said, you had sex with her only 2 days before her period should have started.  So, I have to think that it you are not the one who got her pregnant.  Hope that helps!

ovaz129 · Answer

I would that anything is possible, but from what I understand about ovulation, pregnancy, and menstrual cycles... she would have ovulated BEFORE you had sex with her.  So, I am leaning towards thinking that the baby is not yours. 

If she gets her period every 28 days, most women will ovulate 12-16 days from the first day of her last period.  If you had sex with her 8 days ago, you would be having sex with her outside of her "ovulation days".  I would have to think that it the baby isn't yours.  Good luck... maybe someone else on here will have some other insight for you :)